My grandmother just died yesterday August 3, 2006 at 12:35 pm.I love her so much and I need her.
2006-08-04 07:25:28 · 7 answers · asked by Ni Ni 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
There is no easy way to cope with losing someone that you have been close to. The only thing I can tell you to do is think of the good times that you two shared together, and don't dwell on her passing. Eventually you will meet again. By the way my sympathy goes out to you.
2006-08-04 07:30:19 · answer #1 · answered by jad26 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Losing someone you love is so painful, especially if that person was an anchor in your life. Let yourself grieve and know that no matter how bad it hurts now, time will gradually ease the sharpness of your sorrow. Share your feelings with others. You will find comfort in connecting with others. I don't know how old you are, so I'm not sure what you mean when you say you need her. Her physical being will be gone, but her love for you, her spirit, and the things you learned from her will be around forever. God bless and keep you, honey. Death is not the end.
2006-08-04 15:00:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first funeral I ever went to was for my beloved 8 month old baby boy. I'm saddened to hear of the loss of your Grandmother. Keep her memory in your heart and know that you will meet again. Talk to her about your feelings - it is pretty good therapy. Also, I like to send helium balloons up on special days. When they disappear, I like to imagine the loved one has received it. One of my Grandmothers died many years ago on my birthday. We were very close and I think about her all the time - that keeps her with me.
2006-08-04 14:50:20 · answer #3 · answered by Ms. G. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, I am so sorry for your loss. I know you don't think the pain will ever subside, but it will - in time. Think about how blessed you are to have had your grandmother in your life, and treasure all the wonderful memories. Every day think of something you shared - special times, laughter, cookies, a special look meant just for you, etc. Talk to your parents/family, share your feelings. And don't forget to pray. God can heal all pain, if you ask him to. I'll be praying for you.
2006-08-04 14:36:50 · answer #4 · answered by ilana 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to hear about your Grandmother.
I always try to remember how a person lived and what kind of life they had and how much I enjoyed being part of it. It kind of brings a calming emotion to know that everything is ok and that you can always remember. Remember how nice it is that that special person brought you so much happiness in to your life.
We will always remember, and I think that says a whole lot about those we remember.
I wish you the best dealing with this and time does heal.
Hang in there.
2006-08-04 14:34:42 · answer #5 · answered by jarhed 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're gonna miss her for the rest of your life, but life will go on. do something to remember her and just keep living
2006-08-04 14:31:13 · answer #6 · answered by shiara_blade 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to remember the good things that happened. make something of her like a scrapbook so you can always remember her.
2006-08-04 14:31:52 · answer #7 · answered by aimez20 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋