should i have MY FIRST KISS with him?

Question

this guy from my previous questions is coming to my house on monday
if i still like him at the end i really want to kiss him
im 15 and still havent had my first kiss and i want it!
should i just get it over with?
i mean i think i do want to kiss him! its all i think about!
whats your opinion?
ps hes 17 in december

fyi this guy is not a jerk, he is the sweetest guy on earth!

Answer 1

c'est la vie, I got your message but please for your own sake delete the other message you sent me to contact you personnally...


Its just I am nice, despite what some think but any nasty person could also see that and send you nasty stuff or try and meet you and be dangerous or nasty. Never put contact details like that on a board like this unless it is a tempory email you don't use and can reject. Even then don't try and meet people..certainly NEVER alone, without a capable adult and in a non public place.

I have had trouble from people like that before we had to call the cops on... But I am a grown up. You are not.

I hope you see this before someone not nice does or thats its a temp email not your main one and you dont get nasty stuff sent to you.

It makes me real happy to think someone could ask me for tips but Despite being a lot older I am not that much more experienced then you, nowhere near enough for my age... It hurt me a great deal and messed up my life. So no expert on kissing. Thanks for the comlimnet though.

So pretty much what motivates me to help people like you, is not wanting to see you hurt like I have been, ending up alone and wanting you happy and people to fall in love and not get pregnant etc etc.

The neck thing we worked out by accident (I was trying to give her a hicky and she really liked it and I thought cool go for this.)

There will be other things you will work out that work for you when you try something and thing wow do that again.

But a really good tip is take your time and build up a large foundation at each level like building a pyramid... ie not first kiss today first home run by the end of the week.

Get good at each level and enjoy...Thats what being your age is about discovering new things...

I answer as I wish people had done for me so I would have turned out ok based on my and those I saw turn out ok. Its the ones who had the open parents telling them stuff that did well in detail all open etc. Hippy parents seemed to produce the best kids. I got the opposite.

I will say it as it is, detail graphic and all and try and do my best but dont know everything... or Id have my life sorted instead of trying to sort others.

So as Arnie (aint even going to try and spell his surname beginning with S) said give them/him what he wants but not all so he wants more...

Like in things like Roswell the series.

Lots of hugging, arms around each other, hands on butt squeeze and yes as you progress hands will end up elsewhere (remember over time I know you will discover a new toy and want to try all the buttons asap... but do it to fast the novelty runs out quick). The nibble suck tougue thing on your shoulder neck... It works him doing it to you...not the other way around as far as I know. He should like you blowing in and sucking or nibbling his ears.


But don't loose control... and keep going as you are only 15...

If you want to know about more serious stuff that comes after kissing post a separate thread and I and others will answer that... so its on context if you get my drift.


Thing is I don't know who you are... You could be younger, older, some adult trying to set a trap, a psycho, or who you say you are.

And the other thing is if I started responding to your email like how you want your parents could get the wrong idea and say im grooming you or other crap as Im a grown up despite being way immature for age. Or anyone else adult who tries to respond to you privately.


15 and 17 is fine... kiss the boy if you both like each other, it really dont matter who initiates it... But guys love sexy girls starting things... Try in a cinema.

Hope it works out for you and dont put your email up ok? ask here.



On and dude who cest is talking about ya better look after the girl OK

Answer 2

Take your time and see what happens. Get to know somebody first and see if you want to be intimate with him. Make him wait a little so you don't seem easy. If he likes you he'll like you for who you are and not because you kissed him... But kissing is a great way to express how you feel about someone.

Answer 3

Ask him if you can have a kiss because if you just go for it then there is the possibility that he might freak out or give em a kiss on the cheek. He might respond back by kissing you on the lips.

Answer 4

a first kiss is something sacred, u shouldnt rush it. there's nuthing wrong with waiting a little bit longer. think about it. wat if he turns out to be a total jerk, would u want to share ur FIRST kiss with sumeone like that?! yea, it might be hard to resist kissing him, but it should be sumthing special, ppl r gonna ask u about this when u get older, it should be a memorable story.
wait a litle while, u never know, the guy of ur dreams might jus show up!;)

Answer 5

you do it whilst it feels nicely suited, yet you do no longer wanna be dashing from one step to the subsequent. you should no longer placed a quantity to it to make your ideas up once you will have your first french kiss. And looking on how old you're, you would be able to wanna wait.

Answer 6

you shouldn't kiss someone just to have your first kiss. If you do then it is not going to be good. Just let things happen naturually. If the two of you really like each other than it will happen.

Answer 7

Kiss him but make sure that he doesnt have AIDS. What do you mean by kiss first of all---is it on cheeks or is it a smooch? It is better to chew peppermint before the act;-)

Answer 8

I think u should kiss him and stop worrying 'cuse if he's a great guy then u aren't making a mistake

Answer 9

Your first kiss should be with someone you really like cause you will always remember it.

Answer 10

no........... wait until you feel comfortable because im sure that you want your first kiss to b special and if u feel like he is the one that you want to b the first then do it. but only do it if it is special to ya. best of luck