y is it such a big deal to wait to have sex until ur married? and y is such a big deal for gurls and not guys?
2006-08-04 06:08:56 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
beacuse some people are christians and they belive that it is a sin to have sex b 4 ur married and its a big deal 4 gurls cause if they get pregnant and noy cause guys wouldnt have to be carring a baby in their stomach 4 9 months
2006-08-04 06:14:19 · answer #1 · answered by sk8erkat1210 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I'm waiting until i get married... it's not so much a big deal to wait until you are married, but at least be in a relationship with the person.... i can guarantee you that i don't' have AIDS or HPV or any other STD's and i have not ruined my young life by getting pregnant...why? because I'm not screwing everything in sight! maybe people should not be so up tight but i thing that there are good reasons for why people think that way
2006-08-04 13:20:49 · answer #2 · answered by Carly j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Years agoi, that was the best gift you could give to the one whom you were marrying. In todays world,. our society has become so sleazy, and easy its disgusting! It has gotten to the point that sex is just being done between casual friends or fu*k buddies, and is no longer a special thing. This is sad, sex is meant for two people to show their love and affection for each other, Not to see who can be the biggest whore, or who cant get who off the fastest! Our society is in big trouble!! And everyone wonders why there is so much disease out there? DUH!
2006-08-04 13:16:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is total BS. It is society trying to control women and stop them having fun. Waiting until marriage is a recipe for a horrible and short marriage.
2006-08-04 13:15:03 · answer #4 · answered by ZCT 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To some people it's not a big deal. Most anyone who has these reservations is very relgious.
2006-08-04 13:13:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, GOD said it's wrong. I guess you could tell Him you think it's not a big deal.
2006-08-04 13:17:05 · answer #6 · answered by L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's just what the church wants you to think.
I know that for me personally, I will be
handing out the condoms to my daughter as well as my son.
2006-08-04 13:16:09 · answer #7 · answered by bme79 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sm people want to live by the bible and obey god's will,while others dont
2006-08-04 13:40:46 · answer #8 · answered by khadeeja 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because that's the gift you have to offer to your husband in your honeymoon, by giving yourself to that person in your honeymoon is something that'll ensure them that you're his and no one elses.
2006-08-04 13:14:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls care about it more than guys do I suppose
2006-08-04 13:12:03 · answer #10 · answered by .: The Girl Next Door:. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋