Going on a 2nd date with this woman, 1st time dinner & movie. Need to make a statment for the 2nd, any ideas?

Answer 1

Take your time, whats the rush?

Answer 2

Wear a valtrex T-shirt.

Just kidding. What's the deal with the statement? If you're going to declare undying love, you should just rethink that right now. In fact, it's probably best to go the exact opposite. Since the first date was the formal dinner-and-a-movie, you're probably better off keeping things more relaxed this time around. Start with a cup of coffee, and have no fixed plan, but four or five options to present, and see what she'd like to do. Girls love options almost as much as they love shiny things. Jazz club, a dance club, shakespeare in the park, ice skating, or bowling is a good example of an array. Relax buddy, she already likes you- you've got a second date! You'll be fine. Good luck!

Answer 3

What did you find out about her in the first date? What she likes, her hobbies is she a party girl, is she into sports etc. This will help you plan a second date easy. or a third date. Just listen!
But here's a few cool idea's that will help......
Sunday afternoon picnic in the park. go online and look up Park districts in your area. Some have canoes you can rent cheap.
Not a cook go Kentucy Fried Chix or Boston Market it's better than the old sandwiches. Lunch at a Park can be very relaxing and can give you both a chance to talk.

The cool thing about just dating is to get to know the person, then you can use your imaganation and come up with dates.

Go to a library and check out books that have 1001 Romantic Ideas in them, this is fun and it gives you great ideas.

Answer 4

U dont give much detail about first date but lets just guess it was all about talking and knowing each other.
Now its time to make your move or You ll turn into a "friend".
Go to a place where u can talk, maybe for a coffee, or a soda. Act funny, make her smile, and try to hold her hand and some eye contact and ask things about what she thing of, or what she likes, show interest but let her speak about things she likes. If everything goes ok, maybe u can kiss her goodbye. Say something like: "I dont give goodbye kisses till 3rd date but im going to do an exception with you". But only if she has been laughing and having fun. Otherwise tell her something like: "i dont think it will work beetween us, your too serious". if she says something like, "No, im not", tell her: "ok ill give another chance then". :) If she smiles with that, tell her. Ahh thats better! and you do the 3rd date kiss joke.
Love is a game, learn to play it.

Answer 5

What does she like to do? If she is into art or painting take her to where you can paint and interact. If she is into cooking take her to a cooking class. If she is a gambler go to a casino. Take her on a picnic. Do something where you can interact with eachother. Women like men who are creative and think outside the box. I dont know where you're located so I dont have many more suggestions. Most women like surprises too so once you decide, call her and tell her what she should wear and leave the rest a mystery. Good luck.

Answer 6

Take her somewhere crazy that you'd like to go to, if she doesn't feel your idea just forget it..she's just not into you..and no matter where else you take her she'd play a character so you can spend time and money on her (many women like to do this even if they don't like the guy-don't ask why)...Simply test her by being exciting and creative like you really are and don't worry about the outcome (if she agrees to go in the first place that is a very good sign)...For example: If you like (or love) bungie jumping..invite her to go do just that, if she's not into that, then she's definitely not your type, and you will be saving yourself alot of headaches, and plenty of benjamins to do the thing you'd really like to do with really cool women.

Good luck

Answer 7

Do something fun, dinner and a movie is nice and romantic, but a girl wants to know that you can be romantic and fun. Try paintball, bowling, arcade if shes into that. If you live by a lake go jet skiing, fishing, or things along those lines. Basically something somewhat competative, its fun, its creative, and it allows you two to relax around each other better.

Answer 8

The first date was kinda serious.. dinner and a movie. The 2nd one should be more fun, more open.

Answer 9

I am a psychiatrist, and I specialize in therapy for men who want to improve their dating life.
Basically, everytime you go out with a woman, you are sending out messages. By takign her out for dinner and a movie the first time, you sent out this message: " I am like most guys, and I want to impress you, and I am willing to buy you things in order for you to like me."
(I am nothing , if not frank and honest). You therefore have to undo that message. You can do this by increasing your sense of self-worth. Repeat to yourself the night before the date, and just before the date, " I am important to a potential relationship, as she is. I do not have to SELL myself. She has to win my affection NOT the other way around. "
And then tell her , playfully, "So, where are you going to take me? Make it worth my while!"
And whatever she says, just look at her, and smile mysteriously.
She will be yours, trust me.

Dr S
alphadesi.com (coming soon!)

Answer 10

Something fun .... bowling is fun!! If mean, if you both enjoy it. You can enjoy each other's company at the same time. I wouldn't suggest a movie for the 1st date (although you already did that) and the reason is you can't really "talk" and talking is important.

Answer 11

you are "making a statement" kinda early...is there circumstances that require you win her fast? Or are you married and have found the perfect girlfriend?
ok ideas...be a tourist in your own town....are there specifics of wher you live or are meeting? remeber the more you do too much too early...you will be setting the bar way high too earlyand cannot build up if you decide this woman is worth it.....