2006-08-04 05:51:50 · 32 answers · asked by sanjay 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No as long as you use protection, and don't use abortion as a means of birth control. Too many young people nowadays are severely lacking in sexual education. I'm all for recreational sex as long as it is done responsibly. Which means you practice safe sex, and you don't intentionally hurt someone by your actions.
2006-08-04 06:01:12 · answer #1 · answered by bme79 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes it is bad. I was a virgin until about 22, and now that i look back I TOTALLY regret it. I wish i had kept my values. The guy i lost it to, didn't even love me, I did. That led from one thing to another, and I ended up getting pregnant by this other guy, who is not who I thought and it put me throught a lot of trouble. Sex is just not sex, it involves a lot of emotions and results that many are not ready for. If i had to do it again, I would wait until marriage. BUt once you go there, there's no going back.
2006-08-04 05:58:03 · answer #2 · answered by A_Latina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not really because many people who wait until marriage end up wondering about sex with other people or act on their thoughts. Now it is important to be safe either way to avoid pregnancy and STD's, but I think it helps a marriage to know that both people have had sex with others and want the whole package from this individual, not just the looks and personality, but the sex as well.
2006-08-04 05:56:13 · answer #3 · answered by Young Mommy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Premarital sex isn't bad. One night stands are bad. Having sex on the third date, is bad. But having sex with your lover that you've been dating for months and months and months-- perhaps even years and years and years-- isn't bad.
And there is no reason why a girl should have an unplanned baby. Go on the pill. Use a condom. Don't be stupid, be smart. If your man says "putting the condom on isn't as good as it is without", or "putting the condom on ruins the mood", then screw him! If he says that just say "fine then, but I'm sure having a baby ruins the mood more." or "well how about this: you don't put it on, and we don't get it on."
2006-08-04 05:56:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes. I had sex with someone I was with for 5 years. Seemed more than safe at that point. I regret it. We broke up. Now I'm married to my dream man. I wish my husband was my first. It really is worth the wait.
2006-08-04 06:04:54 · answer #5 · answered by lasksy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope.
1. I think it's a good idea to practice so when you get married and pleasure your husband, you'll blow him away.
2. How about if you die before your wedding night, which means you'll die a virgin? That's just awful, right?
Then again waiting until marriage makes it more special because it's your first time, not with just any guy but your soulmate.
2006-08-04 06:06:46 · answer #6 · answered by Lexy 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes!
2006-08-04 05:54:39 · answer #7 · answered by AsianPersuasion :) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for the girls. If you don't sex with him first how do you know how it is and if your sex life will sux. Once your marry its a little hard to go back.
2006-08-04 05:56:47 · answer #8 · answered by Jeff L 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no i dont think os just as long as you use protection or pills to help you out i mean its alright if you want it to be but if your going to do it do it with the right person cause then if you just go sleeping around you get a nasty name like my friend but its your chose
2006-08-04 05:56:08 · answer #9 · answered by giggles 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
NO who told you that...have sex all you want so long its with a person that your in a relationship with
2006-08-04 05:57:34 · answer #10 · answered by barbie c 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋