i need to know cause my ex boyfriend that used to beat asked cme to get back with him
2006-08-04 05:49:07 · 18 answers · asked by giggles 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-08-04 05:52:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I think that you would be a fool to go back with your ex boyfriend. 9 times out of ten the men who have previously hit a woman will do it again. I didnt say all men I said 9 times out of 10. I would not have stayed with him if he hit, and I would not go back knowing that he has hit me in the past. Men that hit have a controlling nature and have been brought up with no morals or no thoughts on how a woman feels when she is being hit, not cares how a woman feels or else he would not do it. They will tell a woman everything that they want to hear, but then turn on them in a heartbeat. I would stay with someone that makes you feel special. A man that gives you the world on a platter and a man that wants you for you and not what he can mold you into.
2006-08-04 12:58:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think, if you don't know the answer to your own question, you shouldn't be dating.
Real men, ones who love - NEVER HIT!
Tell your abusive prick of an ex to go take a flying f--k off a tall bridge. Then go and find a real man- one who will love you and make you feel like a woman instead of a punching bag.
Good Luck!
Aloha!
2006-08-04 12:57:41 · answer #3 · answered by gabriel_demus 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
UH.... are you kidding me!?
There's a reason why he's an EXboyfriend... people DON'T change! Obviously you have some selfconfidence issues and then someone who loves you is the best guy for you. And don't be thinking that a guy who hits you, loves you. Hitting is violence, violence spawns from hatred. Hatred IS NOT love.
2006-08-04 12:55:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anyone who hits a woman needs help not a relationship. Go with love.
2006-08-04 12:54:07 · answer #5 · answered by Widowed dad in michigan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with the man who loves you, one who nurtures you, respects you, and wants to see you smile, not cry. If your ex who hit you tells you he can be different, he can change, do not believe him. Men who hit women do it to control them, like training a dog. He will lie to you to get his control back, trust me, I have been there, and they only get worse. Love yourself enough to stay away from abusers.
2006-08-04 13:00:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he knocked the sense out of your brain. You can't seriously be asking this question. You need to take care of #1 before thinking of getting into any kind of relationship.
2006-08-04 12:53:22 · answer #7 · answered by gemone523 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Someone that hits you of course. Take your punishment like a good girl should.
2006-08-04 13:18:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Someone that hits you is NOT the person for you.If you go back to him,youwill just get hit again.You never know,he may eventually "love you" to DEATH
2006-08-04 12:58:01 · answer #9 · answered by kikasman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A stupid question deserves a stupid answer.
Get back with your ex so he can beat the hell out of you and put you in the hospital or kill you. Then we won't see this dumb question again.
2006-08-04 12:55:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the one he hits you loves you as well... but it is a different type of love.... he loves you the way someone loves a grilled steak.... He'll eat you alive.... that's the way of his love. There are different types of love and it is up to you what to choose
2006-08-04 12:58:18 · answer #11 · answered by alexandredz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋