my mom and dad are big christians and they dont believe in bisexual christians but i cant help the way i am how do i tell them that i am bi?
2006-08-04 05:39:50 · 39 answers · asked by Cora P 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
i want to be honest and im gonna bring my girlfriend over and play with her for a lil while and they think its a sleepover WHAT IF THEY WALK IN ON US then they would like FREAK OUT!!! (any1 kno any good porn sites i can go to to look at some pussy?)
2006-08-04 05:55:23 · update #1
"Mom, Dad, meet my boyfriend, Brad, AND my girlfriend, Angelina"
2006-08-04 05:43:59 · answer #1 · answered by rsuavez66 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are going to have to tell them sooner or later. If you still live under thier roof...I could see where you would wanna wait. Well look at it this way if you live at home you can have sleep overs with your friend and they will have no ides. Honesty is the best policy if you are you are out of the house just tell them! They are your parents they will still love you they will just need to get used to the idea. It id who you are and the way that god made you.
2006-08-04 05:45:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why is it important to you to tell them?
Do you tell them everything you do?
And how do you know you are truly bisexual. Being bi- is not just a sexual attraction, but a state of mind and a lifestyle.
At his point you are curious about, and even attracted to, all sorts of sexual experiences. That doesn't make you bi-. It makes you a perfectly normal teen.
If, as time goes by, and it becomes necessary to tell mom and dad, worry about it then.
2006-08-04 05:48:58 · answer #3 · answered by profdave99 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Say Look Mom and Dad I'm a Bi-sexual and I know you won't approve, and neither will God, But I don't care if I'm going to hell, at least I'll have fun before I get there
2006-08-04 05:43:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why do you feel the need to tell them unless you want to take your lover home for Christmas's? what you do in your bedroom isn't really mom "& dads Business. But if they love you they will get over the shock and still love you for you.
2006-08-04 05:44:43 · answer #5 · answered by tnictlo2000 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should differently check out this website it has lots of helpful articles for this kind of situation. It covers the following:
coming out to your family
testing the waters
don't come out if you're in danger
whoops!
take your time and come from a position of strength
coming out with consideration
sensitivity to your parents' feelings
explain that coming out is an act of love
2006-08-04 05:47:17 · answer #6 · answered by Nintendo Rose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you are to embarrased to face them just write them a letter and leave the house for some hours and in the letter tell them to call you when they are ready for you to come home and talk.
2006-08-04 05:44:53 · answer #7 · answered by Tinkz 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Bring home both a boyfriend and a girlfriend and say.. hey we are all dating!
Honestly, I wouldn't worry about it until you have to.. ie.. you get a girlfriend. I know it is delaying the problem, but sometimes answering problems is all about timing.
2006-08-04 05:44:28 · answer #8 · answered by bretto24 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
think about: it´s quite important your parents to know you´re bi?
try to do all as usual as you can, the christian people are very closed about and, you´ll get a big trouble.
Let the time does its job...
2006-08-04 05:45:34 · answer #9 · answered by Doppelganger 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Say, "parents, I am a firm believer of loving eaverybody the same like the bible asks. I love men and women the same."
2006-08-04 05:44:22 · answer #10 · answered by Jersey's Franchise 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you have two choices and they both suck. one. dont tell them and live with your secret until u get a date of the same gender (if you do..) or tell them and suffer the likly miserable consequences ranging from disappointment to being sent to some religious "correction" facility...correction my ***...maybe though just maybe they will change because they love you...
2006-08-04 05:44:00 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋