I am a married man but I like to enjoy other men once in awhile.My daughter just got married to a man that admitted to her that he was with some men in the past. I know because she confided in me about and asked for advice. I always suspected that he could go that way because I have very good gaydar. Me and him are planning a weekend fishing trip together and I am very exited about this and dream of him all the time now.Would it be cheating if we got it on since we are married. I don't think it would be because it is not with another woman. I am going to tell him I like men too and see what happens
2006-08-04 05:33:15 · 8 answers · asked by irishlad 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What are you gonna do? Knock the fishing pole out of his hands??????
2006-08-04 05:48:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why in the world did you marry her? Do you love her? You should have made a choice before you committed to anyone be it man or woman. Yes, it would be cheating. Sex outside of marriage is cheating. And it would be very cheesy to have sex with your son in law. How do you think your wife and your daughter would feel when things come out in the open. Because it will eventually.
You need to sit back and reconsider your marriage. Be honest with yourself and when you get your answer, be honest with your wife. It would save a lot of un nessary pain in the long run.
Decide whether you want to be with your wife, or with other men. If you decide on your wife but still have desires for other men, see if she would strap one on and give it to you from behind. Maybe that will satisfy those desires you are having for both your wife and other men.
2006-08-04 12:46:37 · answer #2 · answered by WANDERER 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES that would be cheating! You need to definitely think things over and decide what you want to do with your life. Don't lead your wife on --cause that's just messed up. Tell her the truth. You married her --so you should be able to tell her anything. Don't make her seem stupid when she doesn't know what's going on.
And another thing --cheating with your daughter's husband?! That's completely out of line and really MESSED UP. How could you ever do that to your daughter and to your wife? If you love them --you wouldn't even be thinking of cheating and you wouldn't of even asked the question in the first place! Show some respect. Think of others before yourself.
2006-08-04 13:02:30 · answer #3 · answered by Jen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, I see problems here. For one thing, there is still the AIDS/STD situation.
I really think you should admit to your wife that you are bi; stay away from your son-in-law; consider some counseling.
A lot of unhealthy, potentially tragic circumstances could develop through all of this.
Sounds like you are pretty self-centered and not considering any possible consequences that could come up.
2006-08-04 12:44:34 · answer #4 · answered by 60s Chick 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't see the big deal........ I've gotten "friendly" with my husbands daughter - my stepdaughter before. Keeping it in the family ya know??
Have fun fishing - Brokeback Mt was a hot movie - take pics for me ok?
2006-08-04 13:00:52 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will create a new version of "Broke back mountain" 2.
2006-08-04 12:47:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Great job!! Wow your daughter must be proud. Your trash, that is some messed up sh*t.
2006-08-04 12:40:24 · answer #7 · answered by whl04031998 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow.
2006-08-04 13:11:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋