i think my "member" is average in size, but i'm told other wize. girls complain about it bottoming out. i have been told by most that its too much to handel. I'm confused, i thought girls wanted quote, unquote "big members." i have even had sex with older women thinking their broke-in and could be more able to handel it, i still get the same complaint that its just to big. i dont understand women. i always hear how they hate small men, and want the "big one" and when they get it, they dont want all of it. what am i missing here?
2006-08-04 05:14:53 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
too much is when a woman says it is....
2006-08-04 05:19:51 · answer #1 · answered by alien 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One can only go so deep into a female, due to the way the human body is made. After that, you will run into the cervix, which will cause the woman pain. It is an inherent part of their physiology, and is what one would call a physical limit. After a certain point, you are bumping into the opening of the uterus, which will cause pain, and will have the woman asking that you stop. It does not mean that you aren't any good, just that you are causing discomfort, and continuation will leave the woman sore, and unable to enjoy the act for some time, until the internal bruising heals. Remember, this is a very sensitive part of the female anatomy, and be gentle, so as not to cause damage to the one you are with. It will show consideration, and that you care enough to be careful.
2006-08-04 12:24:25 · answer #2 · answered by Darqblade 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, big members are great! But only if the guy knows how to use it. If they thrust too hard and too deep...it just hurts. Something to keep in mind, an average woman's vagina is only capable of taking in 8 inches. So if you're bigger than that, trying to force it all the way in, when it doesn't hold anymore, just makes for painful sex. When you're having sex, ask what they want as you're doing it. Ask if you're going to deep or if that feels right. After awhile you'll be able to get it down, and won't have any problems. Take Care!
2006-08-04 12:20:41 · answer #3 · answered by ------ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my wife complain for a few week and then i learn that not to go all the way. I find out later that some girls go though a cycle where her sweet spot goes deep and her sweet spot is right on short.
I'm have a large member and sense i feeling in love with my wife i have done everything i can to make sex more enjoyable for her. as of today my wife and i have been married for now 8 year and we still having a great sex life.. i hope this answer you question.
2006-08-04 12:27:28 · answer #4 · answered by celticdragon 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am unsure of how "big" you are, but most men are an average of 6-8 inches when erect. And I am not sure of your situation, but I know my husband has the same problem. It took us a while, but I am now accustomed to his size. It sometimes takes some special positions, but you will find the right woman who can handle you.
2006-08-04 12:23:45 · answer #5 · answered by tiggerluv252000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of times even a small or average size penis can cause pain. Usually its when it hits the cervix inside of the womans vagina. This can really hurt. If this happens ask her what position would feel better. It is different for each woman but a lot of times simply switching positions will help.
2006-08-04 12:19:51 · answer #6 · answered by luone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
every girl is different...size doesn't always matter. Long as you know how to work it, that's what matters. If your "member" is longer than average then yes it doesn't feel good to have the entire thing inside, makes it uncomfortable and not enjoyable at all. Girls dont want a small dick in the sense they want to feel that stroking sensation on the vagina walls...make sense?
2006-08-04 12:21:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ever hear the saying, it is not the size that matters it is what you do with it? Well there ya go.
FYI you could really hurt a female if you are indeed to long and are not careful. To stop the complaints let the women on top!
2006-08-04 12:20:02 · answer #8 · answered by hummingbird 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is as big as a horse yea they will have poblems with it but if you think it is avg. size you may want to think about movin it slightly different you are hitting the wrong spot there is a little place as soon as you enter the vagina(G-spot) (not very many guys remember that you are trying to make this a rememberable experience) the G needs the most concentration/stimulation . it is not bout how hard you ram it it is bout the way you make it feel , you should grab u a pocket puss and get your freak on with it for awhile and when you are comfortable relax and try again with a real one try to please her not yourself!!!!!
2006-08-04 12:29:06 · answer #9 · answered by krisforre 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all leave the "girls" alone and find a women that knows how to handle a well endowed man such as yourself... I know plenty of women who would never complain about a man being TOO BIG...to small yeah to big never...work it boo and find yourself a women who appreciates you..
2006-08-04 12:31:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay well since you now know that its a littl emore than average try using more lubrication and getting them sufficently aroused before penetrating, to be technical and go slowly at first and if they say harder or deeper than do it, I mean fast and barely getting half in will work and you will have a ball as well, good luck and congratualtions...
2006-08-04 12:20:03 · answer #11 · answered by lasugarfree 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋