and u started going out then he or she moved...do u think ull ever find each other again...beacause of the coincidences u always have w/ that person..?
2006-08-04 05:05:01 · 19 answers · asked by winnie m 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hiya winnie i read your question and i would say say yes you will find each other again, if you have everything in common as thats like a magnet drawing that person back into your life again eventually, i seen this sooooooooo many times from different countries i been in to, people will run into the same people again they had great things in common with.But just 1 thing winnie if he or she left your life, did they leave in a quick way cuz it might be that you felt within yourself that the relationship was too good to be be true, if so the other person can pick up on this,and they might decide to just leave , for maybe fearing the same reason so if that is the case, it would be much better to find someone with many things in common but not everything in common, let there be some differences between you this is what gives the relationship more exploration,enjoyment getting to know more of the other person and more excitement , i hope all this helps winnie , all my highest wishes to you , take very good care and hope it all comes your way soon bye
2006-08-04 05:25:22 · answer #1 · answered by namaste 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This sounds to me like it could, or is, a potentially valuable friendship, if not romantic relationship.
I do not suggest you wait and hope for a 'coincidence'.
Why don't you try taking fate into your own hands for a change?
The legendary long-distance relationship is every bit as tough as it is rumored, but not nearly as impossible.
Communication and trust is essential to keeping a long-distance relationship, just as it is in a normal relationship.
You will have to have absolute faith and trust in your partner and them you.
And as a means of communication, make all of the following a regular habit:
-Letters (They are more personal and have more substance than an e-mail, so don't just skip this one.)
-Telephone calls
-E-mail (I suggest twice a day. One in the morning discussing what your days plans are and one in the evening explaining how your day went. This keeps each other connected on your day-to-day activities, which is important. Most couples in long-distance relationships, if asked what their partner is doing that day, would not be able to answer. That is not good at all, obviously.)
-Text messaging (On the go and up to date.)
-Instant messaging
-Sending gifts (Don't focus too much on this one, though, if you know what I mean.)
-Shared online activities (Multiplayer online games, music, news articles, etc.)
-Shared offline activities (Listening to the same music, watching the same movie, reading the same magazine/book, all at the same time, etc.)
If you so choose to do this, obviously you will need to have a serious talk with you partner and openly express your thoughts and feelings on the matter.
And then listen very carefully to how your partners responds.
Remember, this has to be a mutual agreement.
Of course, all of this depends on how old you are and he is, how long you two have known each other, how long you two have actually been dating, etc.
However, if you truly believe in your heart that this relationship is worth it, even just to keep the friendship, not necessarily dating, I suggest you do it.
Follow your heart.
I hope my advice helped and I apologize if it didn't.
Take care!
2006-08-04 12:18:26 · answer #2 · answered by flod_prfekshun 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Long distance is hard, but you can do it if you try. Just keep in mind that it's not going to be easy. If you're young though, and this is the first person you've been with, try dating other people to see if there is anyone else out there.
Trust me, I thought my first boyfriend would be the love of my life forever, but now I'm dating the most perfect man for me and we're almost engaged-and we're not that similar, we just come together and each of us is a better person for it.
2006-08-04 12:10:57 · answer #3 · answered by lilgiggle33 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In all honesty it is opposites that attract. Although the two of you have common interest in the long run it would become quite boring. However, this person might make an excellent best friend, so keep in touch. It's always good to "look in the mirror" so to speak.
2006-08-04 12:11:16 · answer #4 · answered by buford_bargain_hunter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know I really don't think coincidences are such I believe they are anonymouses from God. But hell if it is meant to be then you'll we'll find each other again I promise! But don't worry about it if it doens't work then you'll find someone else and remember diversity is the beggest pleasure in life. Be happy and smile alot, things will all work out its destiny!
2006-08-04 12:10:24 · answer #5 · answered by lasugarfree 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't worry about it.... there's plenty of people out there who will have a lot in common with you. Actively seek out that person you had something with, but remember if someone else comes along to give them a chance... don't get stuck on qualities they have to have that are ridiculous because they can never be that other person.
2006-08-04 12:08:23 · answer #6 · answered by kenny_the_bomb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
While it is important to share common interests and be able to relate on all levels. if two people are too much alike, one of them isn't necessary.
However, many times people re-connect with that special soul mate another time and place and it's even better the second time around.
2006-08-04 12:16:18 · answer #7 · answered by zuzu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hopefully yes. I feel this way about the soulmate but hes far away so I can identify with you. Find someone closer if youre a minor.
2006-08-04 12:07:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll probably see each other but You might not like them anymore. I think it's creepy that you have almost everything in common, but you might feel more like friends.
2006-08-04 12:11:35 · answer #9 · answered by margera_96 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a sucker for believing in fate. So I say if it is meant to be you two will me again. Just let it flow, things will happen naturally.
2006-08-04 12:09:37 · answer #10 · answered by strawberries 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋