..has a sexually transmitted disease or aids, would you stay with them or leave?
2006-08-04 04:25:04 · 22 answers · asked by Yum*Yum 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'd leave that biatch to die.
2006-08-04 04:27:30 · answer #1 · answered by haha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it depends...did he or she contract the STD before or after you two became a couple. If he or she got it before, then he or she needs to be honest with the other and practice safe sex methods and continue the relationship if the other person is willing. If the STD was contracted after they became a couple then there are two points to consider...did he or she get it from their partner or someone else while they were dating their partner? If they got it due to the partner, then they need to discuss what happend, how it happend, why it happend, when it happend, and how can you prevent the spreading or reinfection...and perhaps discuss the importance of honesty and safer sex practices. If they got it from an affair, then he or she needs to be honest with his or her partner and tell them everything even if it is painful and try to either work things out, practice safe sex and/or allow them to leave since they chose to cheat.
If you partner has an STD, then I recommend you learn as much as you possibly can about the disease and then go to the doctor yourself and get tested to make sure you don't have an STD. Finally, the rate of STD's is going up exponentially and so in order to find someone who is clean is important, but since almost 1 in 4 people have some sort of STD, its better to be honest, practice safe sex, learn about the STD and if you love the person enough to stay and try to make it work then, more power to you...but if you chose not to stay then, just make sure that you have been tested and before you leave that person keep in mind that somethings are always important and if you cannot compromise certain things then maybe it wasn't mean to be.
Lastly, if I was in a situation where my partner had an STD, then I would try to figure out when and how the STD was contracted, study about the disease and see if I could be happy with the person, because in the end love does conquer all. If he got an STD because he cheated on me, then I would leave him. But if he had it before we got together then I would stay by his side. And since I am clean..I know he didn't get it from me...so...I guess it depends on how he got it.
2006-08-04 11:47:12 · answer #2 · answered by monavyas15 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That all depends if he had it all of the five years I would probably stay with him. I would go to the dr and have myself checked out for std or aids. Now if he was cheating and caught the disease I would not stay with him as I believe he cheated on me and lied to me. Once someone lies to me I consider they would do more later so I would leave the relationship. Three things I hate when into a relationship is lying, stealing and cheating!
2006-08-04 11:36:58 · answer #3 · answered by Carol H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If its just an std of course i would stay as they can be treated quite easily unless left too late then there can be permenant damage. As for aids depends on many things ie how long together, will you risk getting it, what about children?
in the case of aids i think you will need to see a professiona before making any decisions.
2006-08-04 11:31:06 · answer #4 · answered by dino 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That all depends on how and when they got it. If they got it a month ago while they were out of town on business that's grounds for a foot in the ***. After 5 years you can be pretty sure that you have whatever they have.
2006-08-04 11:31:44 · answer #5 · answered by jdscorrupted 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG!! Thank God I have never been there, I don't know what I would do, but it would take a lot of soul searching. The first thing I would do is get tested, and the sexual aspect of the relationship would probably end.
2006-08-04 11:29:22 · answer #6 · answered by lissad 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I would first try and find out when and how they got the disease. If it came to be that it happend before you came into the picture then I would stay with them, if it happend while in your relationship with that person then that would be a problem.
2006-08-04 11:28:21 · answer #7 · answered by n2dp4me2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think about it, if he/she had the disease before you got together, they have been lying to you for so long and haven't been honest, and if the got the disease while you were together but you don't have it...they probably cheated, unless it was picked up by a prick from a needle or something so...?
2006-08-04 11:28:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
.. When you say things like these I know you're talking about yourself. Hypothetically? I mean, come on dude. Stay with them if you really love them.
2006-08-04 11:28:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a tough one, it depends how many girl friends I have a the time I found out.
2006-08-04 11:44:27 · answer #10 · answered by Ask the Chef 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By then I take it you have already had sex and so you both have it. If he knew all that time I say make him suffer but if he just found out I say stay w/ him! If he knew all that time I hope you know you can sew him!
2006-08-04 11:28:48 · answer #11 · answered by whateva 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋