I can't stop myself from flirting with guys I absolutely don't know. Everytime I look at a fine guy I imagine us in bed even if I don't know him at all. Why do I have to flirt(and flirt dirty!) with everyguy like he is a cutest thing I've ever seen? is it somethig wrong with me?? please answer
and do guys like girls like me?
2006-08-04 03:38:56 · 25 answers · asked by stacy_candy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
guys like that because they think you are easy.
2006-08-04 03:41:21 · answer #1 · answered by Suarz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are looking for reasons to be a naughty biatch...
I love it when people say: "I cant stop myself from...." or "...i have to..."
Do you flirt when the guy is your friends husband/boyfriend?
Do you flirt when the guy is being rude to you?
Do you flirt when you are feeling tired or sick, or uncomfortable?
My guess is that you might not in some of those situations... which means that you can control yourself, and you dont HAVE to...
Guys do like women who talk dirty on first meeting though... and expect them to be responsive to you... and remember that they have NO respect for you... and they will NEVER be able to commit to a long term relationship with you. So, what you are doing is a great strategy to get yourself a bunch of short-term lovers who are more interested in satisfying themselves than giving you a hug, or a holding your hand, or giving you a back rub when you are sick or tired.
2006-08-04 11:47:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are those that feel that they are not attractive and doing what you do is only a temporary fix to a low self-esteem.
I take it you do not feel you are very attractive? Look in the mirror and see what is there! Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Just because your beauty is not on the outside, believe me, it is on the inside.
It is what you think about yourself that causes the way you act.
Even the most beautiful women in the world will think that they are not attractive! Sit and think why you do what you do. And if what I said is the reason, then you had better start to do some soul searching and begin to look for the person you are trying to be from within.
2006-08-04 10:48:03 · answer #3 · answered by zacksavenue 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, they like you. They sure do, as an entertainment, someone to have fun with. But in the end they will all leave you, why? Because they don't respect you and don't trust you. You are not the long term relationship girl to them, you are the short term roll in the sack girl. They dont appreciate who you are, your value, your mind, they just appreciate what they might get from you. Flirtying isnt bad, to a point, but you push it too far. Now it is fun, but later, well if you don't change, life will teach you a painful lesson called love. You need to sit down and think about how special you are, all the good qualities you have to offer and realize that I guy doesn't have to see you as an easy lay to want to get to know you. Learn to respect yourself, or no one else will. Good luck becoming who you are meant to be. â
2006-08-04 10:55:23 · answer #4 · answered by Dante 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its just the way you are and it may get old as you age. My friend used to be like that now that she is 26 things are different. I hope your young because if, not than it may be a problem.I think guys really like that most of them will think you are a whore. The others would just think you a girl that knows what she wants.
Good Luck!!!!
2006-08-04 10:47:39 · answer #5 · answered by Black_beauty 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys like to mess around with girls like you until they end up with an STD. Then they talk **** behind her back and go find a girl who is more conservative about her actions toward guys. Guys don't want to be with you if they think you will act that way around other guys when they aren't with you.
...until the GIRL gets an STD...
2006-08-04 10:42:29 · answer #6 · answered by thrty2mars 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
flirtings good but watch out some of us guys may take it as "lets go to bed now and F___ all night and day and dont stop for any thing"
i dont mind a little flirt but can we flirt to with you?
2006-08-04 10:52:42 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not belive that your flirting is your problem. the problem comes in if you flirt with your girlfriends boyfriends or someone they maybe interested in. (if you have a girlfriend). Or if you actually act and sleep with them quickly. Please do not, do that it sends a bad message about women.
What do you mean by dirty flirting?
2006-08-04 10:47:32 · answer #8 · answered by marinda w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends, do you follow through with your flirting, or do you just get a guy's hopes up and walk away?
2006-08-04 10:42:48 · answer #9 · answered by FH 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's not good, if it's the guy doing the flirting than of course he'll like it but i'm sure your man won't.
2006-08-04 10:44:10 · answer #10 · answered by D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u like every1 2 muh exceptonally guys lol
2006-08-04 10:44:32 · answer #11 · answered by ruksa111 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋