Am i Too Young?

Question

I like this guy that is 16 years old... and i am 13... am I to young to like him?

Answer 1

I think you are and find someone your own age. I have been their and they like young girls because they can manipulate you all easier than older girls. It may not seem a big age difference but, for teens its a HUGE age difference. It is also normal to like older guys but, just stay away from them.

Answer 2

You are not too young to like him... the problem is that he is 16 and he is going to want to do things with you that might be too soon for a 13 year old to do. Try to find someone your own age... you will be 16 and 18 and 20 in no time to enjoy all things of life.

Answer 3

Too young to like him? No. Too young to date him? YES. He may seem cute and sweet and mature but no matter how much you think you guys are the same, he's a high schooler. You're not. There's a HUGE bridge between you two that you will not be able to cross until at least you both are in high school. You know how that stuff doesn't matter when you're in yout 20's or 30's? That's how long you're gonna have to wait to have a relationship with this guy. Really. Even if he asks you out, think twice before you say yes because this guy has um.... EXPERIENCED a lot more than you have. Watch out for yourself, k?

Answer 4

You're never to young to like someone! However you can be too young to date someone. You see, if you were 18 and he was 21 it wouldn't be so bad, because you would be legal then. You have not only that to consider, but (this is a little personal), him being so much older, he may be more sexually advanced or experienced than you are. He might expect things out of the relationship that you're not ready for, even if he respected that, that's not fair to him or you. You should try (at least until your out of highschool and legal), to date people who are only a maxmum of a year and a half older. I hope this helps, and take care!

Answer 5

You are not to young to have a crush on anyone, as young ladies we will have lots of them. But 16 year old boys are looking for something else, there hormones are in full force. Always use your head and speak your mind, this will make sure people will not try to take advantage of you.

Answer 6

The older you get, the less the 3 year difference in your ages will mean. When you're 23 and he's 26, you'll both be in approximately the same stages in your life. Right now, however, he's in high school and you're not. In 3 years he'll be in college and you'll be in high school. For another decade, he probably won't have much in common with you.

Can you like him? Sure. But don't expect that he'll like you back. You're just setting yourself up for disappointment.

I know, boys your age are still so immature. Be patient. You'll find the right boy some day.

Answer 7

Too young to like him no, too young to get involved YES! You are 13 you don't need to grow up faster than you need to. Relationships are difficult. Wait till you are old enough to handle or even want to put up with it. Enjoy your life. You don't have to answer to anyone but your parents. A boyfriend, especially and older one can be more demanding and have more rules than your parents. Stay single, go to the mall, go out on dates but not exclusively.

Answer 8

Maybe when he is 25 and you are 22. But at 16 and 13 you two are worlds apart.

Answer 9

no, it's only three years and not illegal.
Do know though that between 13 and 16 there is a lot of growth, so you most likely will not be compatible. Some times 3 years is a lot and you're in one of those times.

Answer 10

your kinda young to date him, you can like whoever you want, like Orlando Bloom, but I am too young to date him. I usually try to stick to within two years of my age when dating and never younger guys, but I have gone out with 19 year old's before, I'm 16 by the way, I guess It would be okay, but kinda risky