What women like about guys in general??

Answer 1

A man that assumes his role of supporter, protector, house hard work (mowing the lawn, etc). Don't have to use flattering words if he doesn't have them, but at least let me know he likes how I look (sometimes one head-to-toe review can tell more than words). A companion that wants to go with me everywhere and viceversa. Self confidence (as in he's so sure of himself he KNOWS I won't look around for someone else when I have HIM), trust (someone I can trust, and trusts me), non-jealous. A good father as well as a passionate husband. If he's good-looking, that's a plus. But I rather have someone I can get along with and be proud of than a beautiful idiot good-for-nothing other than himself by my side.
Must be powerful (not macho) enough to make me feel frail into his arms. He must take the lead when it comes to seducing. THAT turns me on. And if I start it, I like a positive reaction. Being rejected without a good and satisfactory reason is a huge turn-off to me, and maybe I remain off permanently. About that worry all men have of their "size", keep in mind is not as important to us as it is how it's used (or at least USED).

Must be willing to listen to me, as I will return the favor. I hate when a man keeps ALL his life secret, and a conversation with him is like pulling teeth. I believe if I can't know what's going on is because he hides something obscure (unless he's planning a surprise for me). Since I'm an open book to my significant other, I expect the same in return. Must be fully honest, even if he believes I'll be mad or sad (as in he doesn't love me anymore and wants to move on, instead of cheating on me). I rather suffer a little and heal faster (giving me the chance to even forgive), than living a lie that will hit me twice as hard when I find out, making hatred deeply engraved.

Must NEVER humilliate me, or compare me to others as in wishing I looked or behaved like someone else. If he doesn't like me for me, then why chosing me to start with? Off course, if there's room for improvement as in easing away the negative ways, he must be the first to tell me. Someone that helps me grow rather than obliterating my self esteem. (ie. "I don't like the arrogance in your tone. It'd be nice if you could work that up. Maybe you don't realize you're doing it. I'll help you there" as opposed to "Ok Miss prissy, anything else your majesty wishes to say? You're the kind of stupid ***** that thinks she deserves the world!")

Too bad the few ones I know like that are already taken.

Answer 2

There are so many things in a guy that I find attractive. LIKE SOOO MANY. I like it if a guy is smart and not shallow..those are two very good qualities. Looks are always nice, but beauty is only skin deep, you know? I always consider a person's personality. If a guy is hot but is a total *****, then...no. But if the guy is a real sweetheart, really polite, really nice, etc. then sure! I also think it's attractive if a guy exercises because that shows that he's not too lazy or anything.

You know what I think is hot? A guy who knows how to dance, and I mean ballroom dance, like salsa or merengue, jive, etc. That's really sexy. (Too bad I only know how to salsa).

If you want to attract women (the right type of women, mind you) then you should be chivalrous. You know, especially polite to the women.

It is such a turn off when guys act like they're all macho and whatnot. If that's supposed to impress me...well..try again. It's another turn off when a guy isn't that hygenic..you know, smells, or doesn't do the laundry as often as he should, etc.

The particular guy I'm interested in right now has this air of mystery all about him..^_^ Mystery attracts me, because of my curiosity..use the curiosity of women to your advantage! But my personal preference is the shy type...even though this guy is really shy...and isn't really excessively polite or whatever, he's really funny (another plus).

I love it when a guy flirts with me. I don't know if it's just me, but I think it's hilarious AND cute! But it can be a turn-off if you come on too strong. If you want to flirt with someone, just make sure that they're interested before you start playing around ^_^

And please please PLEASE do not stare at womens' boobs! They hate that, trust me!

I recommend that you read Superflirt by Tracey Cox because it will help you learn about ... what else...flirting! ^_^

I hope that helps..good luck to you

Answer 3

Honestly I would have to say a good sense of humor. Caring and a man who knows who he is and where he's going. Women appreciate it when guys are real.

Answer 4

Mr. Chivalry says, "Women like a guy that offers confidence, a sense of security and safety, and companionship."

Mr. Chivalry has spoken.

Answer 5

I like the protection most men offer, a warm place to cuddle up against and companionship.

Yes I am a die hard romantic.

Answer 6

Well in general
I love 2 look at hot guys
they always grab my attention
and I grab their attention 2!
Hehehehe

Answer 7

The sense of protection, their looks, their personality sometimes and definitely sex if the sex is good.

Answer 8

I like the fear of what they may do to me! I know sounds stupid but its true!

Answer 9

when there honest respectful and cherish a good woman

Answer 10

a huge joystick