My classmate would go go IM to chat with him he wouldn't answer..Why?
2006-08-04 03:30:07 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The girl would try to chat with him online but he wouldn't answer her...why?
2006-08-04 03:33:26 · update #1
What are you asking?
2006-08-04 03:32:00 · answer #1 · answered by youngan'curious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that a 14 year old could really understand love. I didn't. Also, I would wait until 16 to go on any type of date. And even then, only group dating until your out of high school. Dating should be a great time with friends. Don't go and try to find true love until later in life. Start... maybe, when your 16. 18 and older is better.
But try to become great friends with this guy. Any good relationship requires friendship and trust to be able to be built upon. Without them, the relationship will fail. So, try to become best friends in the next few years and then start dating and see how things go.
I hope the best for you!
Oh, and the second part... maybe he's shy. I'm shy and I don't know if I would when I was that age. Try to become friends so that he would want to talk to you. Find something he likes and try to talk about it at school and make sure he knows your IM and get online and see if he's there. If he doesn't reply. Ask him about it. Ok?
I hope this helps....
2006-08-04 03:36:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No i don't think that a 14 yr old can or knows what love is yet or how to be in a mature relationship. This guy hasn't answered your classmate because he is not interrested, and if she is in a younger class then him, he is not interrested in her at all, and if he becomes interrested, its not real, it is only to get one thing from her, and that is not ok. Tell your classmate to move on and to just hang out with the boys and not bother with having mature relationships, she is too young for all the drama !!
2006-08-04 03:36:05 · answer #3 · answered by shy&gental 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To answer the FIRST question, NO, I do not think that a 14 year old is mature enough to be in a relationship.
The other sentence doesnt make any sense, Im not sure what the question is. Sorry.
2006-08-04 03:35:38 · answer #4 · answered by ladyjailbird424 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. A fourteen-year-old is a child. Children are self-centered by nature. Love and a mature relationship can only happen after you realize you're not the center of the universe. That takes time. Some people never get there, either. They reach the age of "adulthood" in years, but they never reach maturity.
2006-08-04 03:34:47 · answer #5 · answered by Austin W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No 14 year old do not have a clue what love is nor what it takes to make a relationship sound and working. They call them crushes. How many people do you know have married there boyfriend from when they were 14? The ones that are out there are few and far between.
2006-08-04 03:33:57 · answer #6 · answered by UOPHXstudent 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At 14 I believe that love is not real in the sense that you are not quite ready for the expression of love Love is something that is shared when it is onesided it is not love but a longing for something that is missing in your life. People Of a young age explore avenues of Foreign Territories to fill a void that and the result of it usually ends up in disappointment. Find out what the Void is and build a friendship if you feel Love for this person and it is something that can been shared then work on it when nothing else is missing.
2006-08-04 03:38:54 · answer #7 · answered by Bobbi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No,
And for the 12 year old, you are not in a mature relationship. You might think you are but how could that be when your not mature yet. I think children are trying to grow up too fast, stop trying to be an adult and be a kid it goes by way too fast. Concentrate on your education there will be lots of time for boys and girls later on when you are ready.
2006-08-04 03:35:34 · answer #8 · answered by Bassetlover 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to tell you this but no. 14 years old girls change their minds about guys in 1 day as often as they change their outfit. And that is alot! When you are still so young and hardly know anything about yourself, how can you expect to know what you want in another person? We are suppose to give ourself time to grow up and experience many other things before we start to think about dating anyone. Wait till you have passed "The Bloom of Youth" before you start looking for someone to date. Wait till you are older. You will be much happier if you did.
2006-08-04 03:36:05 · answer #9 · answered by Snow 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
..I'm not really sure I understand your question..but I don't really know if a 14 year old knows what love is or how to be mature. It really depends on the person...I don't think most 14 year olds know what they're doing, personally, but there's always an exception.
As for your second question: that's WAAY too vague. Like, maybe this guy's computer crashed, he didn't know her s/n, he was too shy, he had to go eat, he didn't have his away message up...there's so many possible reasons.
2006-08-04 03:34:12 · answer #10 · answered by anu_dew2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I don't think so. They are still in the puppy love stage at that age. The main reason is that they have never had a long, serious relationship before. People always think their first love is the strongest they can ever love someone. When they find their next love, they realize how much more they can love someone..that their first love was nothing in comparison.
2006-08-04 03:34:32 · answer #11 · answered by thrty2mars 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋