racajo2000Im gay and I have a relationship w this guy for 3 years w have sex I help him when he needs money. he gets a check for 100.00 every 2 wks. He smoke weed & drinks. Today he went to his girldfriend house because she call him @ 7:00 am because her mother went work @ that time and she was alone @ her house so call him he went to her house to have sex or other issue. He have been laying to me that he broke up with her but she and him still call every day. I give him money when he dont have minutes in prepaid cell and he calls me only when he wants to have sex or money from me. I like very much. But Iam getting tired of this because he is being laying to me and he still going out with her I dont mine but dont laye to me about his problem.
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Im gay and I have a relationship w this guy for 3 years w have sex I help him when he needs money. he gets a check for 100.00 every 2 wks. He smoke weed & drinks. Today he went to his girldfriend house because she call him @ 7:00 am because her mother went work @ that time and she was alone @ her house so call him he went to her house to have sex or other issue. He have been laying to me that he broke up with her but she and him still call every day. I give him money when he dont have minutes in prepaid cell and he calls me only when he wants to have sex or money from me. I like very much. But Iam getting tired of this because he is being laying to me and he still going out with her I dont mine but dont laye to me about his problem.
PLEASE I NEED YOUR STRONGES ADVISEEEEEEEEEEE
I dont know what to do?
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2006-08-04 03:21:53 · 6 answers · asked by racajo2000 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Going to give you the best advice I would give my daughter. Drop him like a hot potato. When you give a mate money and they are not spending it on you and using for purposes that only break your heart, it is time to STOP giving them money.
Tell this a$$ that you will NOT give him anymore money. Tell him that you will NOT have sex with him. Do NOT give him an atlernative, just STOP doing everything!!!
IF he cares anything about you, he will come around and show you and ask for nothing. IF he does not, he will stop coming around at all.
You want a relationship with a person that loves ONLY you and no one else. This person is not going to give that to you and you should see this already.
Leave him behind and find someone else that will be only unto you. You get your butt moving and go out and look for that someone special that will only ask for your love in return.
2006-08-04 03:36:46 · answer #1 · answered by zacksavenue 1 · 7⤊ 3⤋
leave him. he's using you.
Don't EVER give money to someone you're dating unless you know you're together forever, and that they won't use you for it.
I wouldn't give money to anyone because they don't have enough if they smoke and drink, he could stop that and need less money.
The fact that he has a girlfriend alone should make you leave him.
2006-08-04 10:28:18 · answer #2 · answered by attila 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all ..........STOP GIVING HIM MONEY !!!! and second....like my parents always told me a guy won't buy a cow if they can get the milk for free.....(meaning stop having sex with him ) it sounds like he is only using you.
2006-08-04 10:31:23 · answer #3 · answered by sailboats_n_sunsets 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well what you need to do is cut this guy off because he's only using you and do what he does because he knows you will not leave him so you need to tell this guy get away
2006-08-04 10:28:14 · answer #4 · answered by ♥*♥Bahamian Gal♥*♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
drop his a*s like a bad habit
2006-08-04 10:28:11 · answer #5 · answered by the ONE and ONLY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
run a mile!!!!!!!!! now whikst you can y let someone treat u like that?
2006-08-04 10:29:54 · answer #6 · answered by Sasha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋