I have been living with a man for one and a half years, and we have had "sex" maybe "7" times. There clearly is not another woman. I'm considered a very attractive woman, yet he has zero interest in the bedroom. It is so demeaning. I'm starting to feel a little nervous about "who" he really would rather be with! He has been married three times, and spent 22 years in the navy with the "boy's". Could I be missing something here?????
2006-08-04 02:10:56 · 10 answers · asked by ? 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
married three time.. A clue there. Gets bored with one and moves on. He has someone else now.. Later
2006-08-12 01:03:24 · answer #1 · answered by James H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From a woman who is now dealing with a husband who has been living on the "down low" as long as we have been together, get out now before you enter into any kind of commitment, especially have kids....you see the signs you may not like them but they are there...youre risking your health and emotion well being on someone who obviously has issues that are far beyond his sexuality...think about it 3 marriages and now you and the problems youre having...dont you think he may be a little self centered...anyway dont fool yourself it isnt worth it!!!
2006-08-04 09:49:44 · answer #2 · answered by overcomer 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Possible - what other indications have you had? Does he go out by himself alot? Spend alot of time on the computer? Maybe he just has a problem with sex - how does he perform on bed?
2006-08-04 09:19:51 · answer #3 · answered by bad_bob_69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel you, I am not living with the man but he feels sex is overrated he tell me I am attractive hes lucky to have me but sex is not his priory he loves my intellect he was married as well .. I say maybe they are struggling with their sexuality. They don't want to admit they have those conflicting feeling.. Your needs are important love yourself.. don't be hasty just ask like you are doing now.. and keep your eyes open. good luck
2006-08-04 09:23:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be a health problem, discuss this with him in an open nice way, do not accuse him of anything when talking about this .
2006-08-12 03:17:00 · answer #5 · answered by RY 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe...what if he is just using u cause ur hot
2006-08-04 09:15:26 · answer #6 · answered by prong002 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get naked and try to turn him on-- if he goes for it, he's not. if any excuse is used--GAY!!
2006-08-11 14:35:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no such thing as bi men. they're gay
2006-08-04 09:15:15 · answer #8 · answered by HUSTLER 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never seen a bi men....are there any?
2006-08-12 08:17:11 · answer #9 · answered by John4you 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him
2006-08-11 11:24:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋