my guy doesn't know that its my first time and i don't want him to know. i don't want to make a fool of myself!!
2006-08-04 02:10:52 · 18 answers · asked by girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I agree with the first poster. If you do not feel comfortable letting him know this is your first time do not have sex. The person you have sex with you should not only feel comfortable with but trust also. Be careful!
As far as tips go, when you do choose to have sex it will all come naturally. If you love this person and this person loves you you will know what to do and should not be worried about a thing.
2006-08-04 02:18:25 · answer #1 · answered by mom2abigsis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being a virgin is something to be very proud of in this day and age so let him know because he should be proud of you to if hes any sort of man to bragg about so dont be scared in telling him he should be over the moon that he is going to be your first sexual experience and take it at the pace you want with no expectations involved . Sex should be one of the best moments two people can get involved in together so they should cherish moments like these so forget about getting it right because virgins are by far the best sexual lovers anyways so you have nothing to fear all the pressure is on him trust me .
2006-08-04 09:22:32 · answer #2 · answered by magnum 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Tell him it is your first time. He will be more gentle with you!
2. Relax
3. Enjoy yourself and remember that things only get better by time. The world took 7 days to be created. Your sex life could take a bit of time as well... don't worry... relax... use contraceptives.
2006-08-04 09:19:55 · answer #3 · answered by trushka 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why!? There's no shame of being the first time. In fact make full use of this and tell him that he gotta treat you right as you've given him something that's so precious of you..
Just be natural and relax...Enjoy it but not force to enjoy... Humans have natural sex knowledge, they will know what to do when the time and atmosphere is right.
2006-08-04 09:17:37 · answer #4 · answered by barelyahrie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hopefully you are 18yrs old or older. Use condoms or have you and your partner be tested. You should be on the pill or some other kind of birth control to prevent pregnancy, and if it TRULY is your first time, then you most likely will be disappointed!! So don't get your hopes up.
2006-08-04 09:19:02 · answer #5 · answered by Kyra B. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Darlin, be honest u have to tell him its your first time! this way he can be more gentle with you and hopefully make sure that you get your orgasms.
Honestly, NOTtelling him would be making a fool of yourself cuz ur trying to be something your not, experienced.
As for 'doing it right' just go with what feels good and right, u can't go wrong there.
2006-08-04 09:15:33 · answer #6 · answered by koleebear 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just make sure the dude is using a condom.
I think sex for dummies should do the trick.
2006-08-04 09:17:05 · answer #7 · answered by Tetragrammaton 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In another question you asked you said you're pregnant. So which question is right, that this is going to be your first time or that your 14 and you're pregnant?
2006-08-04 13:43:03 · answer #8 · answered by me. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to hide things from this guy or are afraid to make a fool of yourself in front of him you are NOT ready to have sex and it should NOT be with him! I am being VERY serious. Please please think about this.
Worried and Concerned for you.
2006-08-04 09:14:24 · answer #9 · answered by jiexidi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The absolute worst thing you could do is just lay there! Let him know that you are into it, and are enjoying yourself. Make sure you touch him.
2006-08-04 09:14:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋