2006-08-04 02:05:03 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
"Why do guys not like fat women?" or "Why don't guys like fat women?"
We don't live in a "free" world. Everybody gives too much importance to what other people think. And this makes us "prisoners" in own bodies and minds.
So if something is not in between the so called "norms" people feel ashamed and not worthy. Like, being fat is not something today's world regards positively. How many diet ads are there, how many slimming ideas? How popular is getting a lipo? These are the facts of our lives. Today's idea of being acceptable, is you have to look good. And today's idea of looking good is you have to be skinny.
2006-08-04 02:21:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, the fat chicks get dates too. For those guys that will not date a larger female, then those guys just prefer a slimmer girl. That is their choice. We all have body types that we prefer. Fortunately, there are a lot of awesome men out there that prefer women with curves.
2006-08-04 02:10:29 · answer #2 · answered by haray11 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What makes you ask this question??
Are you fat and lonely??
fat women are great to sleep with in colder climates.
Power bills are reduced, because of the' Exchange cuddle factor', and besides after a while, most guys close their eyes and think of somebody else during sex anyway
Most women too I suppose..
When you have a fat lady, you get more for your money.
Relax babe, enjoy while you can.
2006-08-04 02:15:08 · answer #3 · answered by BazTheFraz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they only see the outer person , as they are to predjustice to get to know the person on the in side. Beauty is only skin deep they might see a skinny gorgeous girl on the out side to them doesnt matter how ense she is inside.Guys hate to date as there afraid what there mates might say or what others might be thinking,
2006-08-04 02:13:19 · answer #4 · answered by a mother 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess its because its not the norm, usually thinner girls are the look they are the one who are said to be epitome of beauty but that's not the only look people has different sizes and when someone says that they can't find the right girl or guy for them maybe because they don't go out of the box.
2006-08-04 02:16:20 · answer #5 · answered by WickeD_AngeL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because they are afraid of what their friends will say,men and women are the same they both do not like to date fat people,only people with courage,and love does not care what people say about people looks,i think people are people no matter what.
2006-08-04 02:12:48 · answer #6 · answered by timmsr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A friend of mine just married a portly woman. Guys like him are referred to as 'chubby chasers' and there are quite a number of them out there. So some guys DO like larger women and some guys don't.
2006-08-04 02:09:17 · answer #7 · answered by Coo coo achoo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's not true. I have known several men who prefer large women. The odd thing is that all of the men are about 135 lbs.
2006-08-04 02:09:03 · answer #8 · answered by starrynight1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not only men... Im female, i feel it applies to all human beings... If you are not fat, why would you want to date a fatty? Unless someone can change the perspective and trend of the fatties...
2006-08-04 02:08:52 · answer #9 · answered by barelyahrie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really think this is a myth. There are lots of men who secretly lust after the bigger females. I think a huge part of it is that large sized females are often insecure, but if they had a bit more confidence, men would be more drawn to them. I believe in being healthy and all that, and I do believe that it is possible to large AND healthy AND sexy....
just my opinion
2006-08-04 02:08:20 · answer #10 · answered by ♪ ♥ ♪ ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋