How many of you men wouldnt mind being with a heavy women... Can any of you guys actually look past the outside of a woman and into the heart of her? I have a great guy that has no problem with that and treats me like a queen.
2006-08-04 01:54:22 · 23 answers · asked by clrguard1 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is not that I am looking I thought it was a question that should be asked and may help someone that thinks there is no hope for them... I know from my own experience now that there is hope...
2006-08-04 02:07:32 · update #1
there are a lot of men like that. my girlfriend isn't exactly thin!!!
but I think she is absolutely beautiful. and i love her to death!!
2006-08-04 02:00:06 · answer #1 · answered by my_name_is_what 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well let's see......you have a guy that loves you just as you are but your asking this question. Could the problem be with your self image? Does your weight bother you?
Your first concern should be with how you feel about it because your guy clearly has no problem.
One thing to remember......when guys are looking they look at what pleases them...just like woman do. Each man is different about what appeals to them. Some like women to be very thin. Others would not at all be attracted to that. Trust me I know. Some love an ample body but not overweight. And some love an overweight woman. I am sure you have heard the term, more to love. They aren't kidding.
But when it comes down to a relationship then it is your heart and your personality that most attracts, not your body. I prefer an average size body, but my wife is overweight. But who cares, I love her.
If your weight bothers you then do something about it. If not then enjoy that man you have and don't worry one bit about it.
2006-08-04 09:16:25 · answer #2 · answered by John B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since I'm into activities like long distance running and biking as well as fast dancing in a place with no a/c, I wouldn't consider someone who wasn't very fit.
If someone is overweight for a reason that isn't illness related, it's a sign to me the person is impulsive and is poor at taking care of themselves and managing their life. Fitting regular time in for heavy duty exercise and spending the time to eat right require organizational and time management skills.
Lastly, I don't like putting my arm around someone's waist and not being able to find it when dancing.
2006-08-04 09:02:00 · answer #3 · answered by Tony T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most men have banged a fattie at one time or another. . . they just don't want to admit it. Sex generally is better with a thinner woman but big girls need love too! A knobjob is a knobjob. . . Look at former president and renouned mound hound Bill Clinton. He liked the chunkier girls. . . . like monica! Try and lose weight for your own health missy but don't worry. . . . plenty of men like heavier women. . . I'm not one of them. . . but plenty of men do!
2006-08-04 09:04:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that male cardiac surgeons are the only men inthe world that can look past the outside of a woman and into the heart of her. Beyond that, its all blind men who only date for personality.
2006-08-04 08:58:49 · answer #5 · answered by illustrat_ed_designs 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
looks are all what the we have got, but it can changed by lil extra efforts on it.
a heavy person can become slim.
adark person can become fair.and so on .
its the inner things which are hard to change, so if ur good from inside
i mean,does not hurtothers, and love them all,and u have certain good principles in ur life established,thats all then every person sooner or later will analyse u and like u.thanks
2006-08-04 09:02:54 · answer #6 · answered by mukesh a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A little meat on the bones is nice but not too much. If shes not putting much effort into staying in shape then thats a turn off.
2006-08-04 08:59:05 · answer #7 · answered by Motorpsycho 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problem with guys being attracted to large women is what everyone else thinks
2006-08-04 08:58:30 · answer #8 · answered by magnum 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All woman are Queens and so they should be treated like one.
2006-08-04 08:59:30 · answer #9 · answered by B.J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as its all in place and jiggly I think most men like a little chunk.
2006-08-04 09:00:32 · answer #10 · answered by hot pepper 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are many men that like their women to have substance
2006-08-04 08:57:52 · answer #11 · answered by Sue 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋