I have the URGE to have sex with my boyfriend but i know that it is sinful.... But can i juz have oral sex with him???
2006-08-04 01:46:45 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
whatever u want
2006-08-12 01:38:30 · answer #1 · answered by ... 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Since u already know tt by having sex with yr bf is sinful. Oral sex is also the similiar there are consequences which u need to bear if both of u break off. E.g of pregnant, STD. Well the final decision is yrs, so make the right decision.
2006-08-04 19:14:34 · answer #2 · answered by Clown & Joker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is sex whether it's standard, oral , anal , gay or straight. And things will never be the same after. If you feel it's sinful, than you probably shouldn't do it, but to tell you the truth you will never be able to wait until marriage and i really don't recommend marrying someone you've never slept or lived with. So if you're ready, do it but be sure it's for you and not just your man
2006-08-11 11:43:18 · answer #3 · answered by lacopperphx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, there is that whole fornication thing.
I don't know any christian churches who say sex before marriage is ok "as long as youre in a long term relationship".
but, if it's not a comandment, you probly won't got to hell or anything for it. if you believe it is wrong though, you should NOT do it. and oral, well, I honestly don't know. most churches I know of would not approve of that if you were married. but in the end, it is your dececion. you have to make it, based on what you believe, and how you feel, and not worry about what anyone else thinks.
and if you are worried about what your famioly and or church will think, well, what they don't know won't hurt them!!!!!
but you know how it is, God knows all.
so it's ultimatly up to you.
choose wisely.
good luck.
2006-08-04 01:58:17 · answer #4 · answered by my_name_is_what 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One isn't any less sinful than the other.
You have the urge because that is a part of human makeup so we're inclined to make babies and continue the human race. It's all about sex hormones and next to nothing about love.
So, is your urge to reproduce stronger than your urge to be religious? Only you can answer that.
2006-08-04 01:54:36 · answer #5 · answered by Tony T 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
From most religious stand points, oral sex is sex. You have to follow what you feel is right in your heart, because ultimately it is between you and God. In my oppinion, God is not going to hate you for having sex with someone that you love... you're not being a whore, you are doing what is natural. If you will feel to guilty, though, I recommend waiting until you are POSITIVE you want to have sex, and POSITIVE you won't regret it. That is what I did.. and I still do not regret it... and I'm a MORMON... apparently that is a sin in my religion... but I feel it's between me and God
2006-08-12 01:43:51 · answer #6 · answered by vanillafr0st1ng 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well that depends on how you truly feel about all sexual contact. You can still have oral sex and be considered a virgin. Your hymen will not be broken and your purity will still be intact. Just do whatever you feel comfortable doing. Trust your instincts. They will not lead you in the wrong direction, no matter the outcome.
2006-08-04 01:55:01 · answer #7 · answered by haray11 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before you commit this sexual relationship with your boyfriend, please don think about "sinful" but "consequences". E.g of "consequences" are pregnant, disease, get dump by your boyfriend ; etc. Want to have sex then do it in the full course where you include the oral sex.Think about it carefully, before you proceed to enjoy the "joy of sex".
2006-08-04 17:30:05 · answer #8 · answered by James Louis 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have oral sex with him you MIT as well have sex with him to because both of them are sins
2006-08-11 10:03:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
By all means go ahead and have sex with your boyfriend. God is not going to punish you for that. God created man and woman to enjoy one another. So what's so sinful about it?
2006-08-04 23:24:30 · answer #10 · answered by Lawrence 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why the hell is it sinful? if your in a long lasting relationship it isnt sinful, christians allow sex before marriage as long as your in a long term relationship.
2006-08-04 01:50:35 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋