I've NEVER EVER cheated in my life EVER. I've been cheated on in every relationship I've been in but I've never cheated. My current bf has been cheated on many times as well, but hes lately gotten into the habit of subtly accusing me of cheating, or joking that I have another bf or something. It drives me nuts n he knows it but I'm wondering, is there something I'm really doing that makes him think that I'm cheating (he said no) or is he jus busting me????? So my question is to guys: what makes you think your girl is cheating on u???
2006-08-04 01:46:08 · 11 answers · asked by Hypnotiq 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dude, if you're not cheating, don't sweat it. We guys are territorial by nature and can't bear the thought of losing a good thing. Honestly, I get insecure all of the time, but I tell myself that even if there was, I couldn't control it. Just enjoy what I have, that seems to work out just fine for me.
2006-08-04 02:02:39 · answer #1 · answered by illustrat_ed_designs 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly I think he's just passing jibes at you. My parents do it all the time, and maybe that where he gets it from. I dont really think he's hinting at you that he thinking your cheating. I've been cheated on many times before, and its not fun, but when they did, i could always find out, because as soon as we would get intimate, all feeling was lost and it felt as if our connection was broken or severed. So keep an eye out for a missing connection between the two of you, and when it does, ask questions. Thats what relationships are for, if you cant talk to each other, then might as well have nothing to do with each other.
2006-08-04 01:52:47 · answer #2 · answered by surf_jayme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mr. Chivalry says, "Men are predators, and men go after anything walking under the sun. Maybe he's been through a situation, or he's seen a situation with a third eye. I think he may have a small insecurity issue. You have to reassure him that you are NOT like anyone he's seen or dated previously. Ask him if there was something in his past that gave him the notion. Ask him if one if his friends was in a situation. The most important thing right now is communication. Good luck to you."
Mr. Chivalry has spoken.
2006-08-04 03:34:38 · answer #3 · answered by L Jeezy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I always wonder when my girl is calling up other guys or going to where they work and talking to them. Makes me think they're cheating. One time my girl said she was going shopping and I know where this guy works that she talks to so I drove over there in 10 minutes and she was there talking to him... makes me think she's cheating.... I doubt she really is, but it really made me wonder.
2006-08-04 01:51:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
and you're nevertheless with him??? some human beings do not learn! this is a photograph of your existence. have self assurance me, the 1st time is possibly the toughest yet as quickly as he did it and have been given away with it the subsequent time would be a breeze for him. My suggestion. injury!!! Run on your existence till now's to previous due! once you love somebody you at the instant are not disloyal to them. No excuses in any respect! and forget approximately him marrying you apart from could. He already have the milk for unfastened so he shouldn't purchase the cow. and that he view the girl he cheated with as a "sister"??? Pardon me yet.... HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HAHAHAHAHHAAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA I in basic terms had to return returned!!! YOU reported: "i'm nevertheless with him. There are 2 aspects of me pulling against one yet another. One says stay with him and artwork issues out... the dating ought to get more desirable. And it does take balls to tell me head to head what occurred. the different factor says to go away his *** - how ought to he try this to me? BTW - the chick he cheated on me with is rather fat and unsightly and not warmer than me. to not be conceited." pay attention.... you do not desire to pay attention something which you do in comparison to, so at this factor it is a lost reason. you're making excuses for him. maybe somebody grew to become into going to assist you already know and he went forward and informed you so which you think of that he's so... "crush with guilt". the guy is a jerk! the only one that could see this is YOU! as for the girl.... then, if she grew to become into so "fat and unsightly" then, the extra rationalization so you might not believe him!! If she did it with an "grotesque pigglet" in accordance to you, then what is going to ensue while he famous an beautiful woman(females)in his course??? you're putting your self for heart discomfort and is going to be your fault.
2016-11-03 21:06:42 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alot of peolpe do that...when there not sure..of themselves...They don,t trust themselves...so the put the att-ention on the other person.....Good Luck
2006-08-04 01:50:44 · answer #6 · answered by outback 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes say it to u cause hes cheating on u.
2006-08-04 02:05:15 · answer #7 · answered by OceanBlue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i knew my wife was cheating on me. i can notice any subtle (spelling) change in her attitutde,movements, etc... i shoulda been a detective..
2006-08-04 01:52:01 · answer #8 · answered by wisdom77 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, one sure-fired way to asume that is if you see her making out with another guy. then it's preaty safe to say that she's cheeting on you.
2006-08-04 01:49:38 · answer #9 · answered by Jay Vee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
unless your attitude towards him has changed, or u just don't show him any affection or u gnore him then i think he's just messing with u.
2006-08-04 01:57:25 · answer #10 · answered by D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋