i am 24 years old and he is 26 or 27 maximum. the problem is that i do not like getting negative answers.i know nothing about his life if he has an affair or anything else. actually i do not care. all i want is spending some time together and get to know each other. two months now the only thing we do is saying hi, how are you doing? and things like that.
2006-08-04 01:07:33 · 6 answers · asked by rovina g 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would avoid asking a co-worker out at all costs. That saying...."Don't mix business with pleasure" was said for a reason. If you are twenty four years old..... exist outside of your comfort zones and force yourself to go out and meet other individuals..... when you're not at work try going out to a local coffee shop or a bookstore.... or go for a stroll in the park.... perfect places to meet someone. As you can see, I didn't list a bar because at times when one goes to a bar... they tend to drink which confuses the brain and impairs your thinking ability. But, yeah...... avoid the co-worker..... a high percent of dates with co-workers only cause a huge amount of drama. Good Luck! Remember: Be adventurous!
2006-08-04 01:23:34 · answer #1 · answered by confused23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know that you're not expecting a negative answer, but I'll give you one. I really don't think it's a good idea to go out with someone working at the same office, unless you don't care how people talk!!! If you want to protect yourself, think twice.
2006-08-04 01:14:27 · answer #2 · answered by danielle s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gee here is a thought...would you like to go out for a drink after work?
try it...it works
2006-08-04 01:12:56 · answer #3 · answered by nomad_of_gor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're in sales and you can't ask someone out? Ask him if he'd like to have lunch sometime. Would tuesday or thursday be better? Instant date.
2006-08-04 01:13:11 · answer #4 · answered by 006 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say oh hi, how are you?what about coffee after work? if he answers "yes or sure" then good for you, if he make excuses, that's fine it's still better to try than not to try at all right? goodluck
2006-08-04 01:15:17 · answer #5 · answered by dede 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would stay away from office flings. you could become friends, and STAY just friends, even let him know that you don't date at work. and if your chemistry/friendship is that good, get a different job. even start looking now...
work relationships usually turn out miserable, and they become EVERYONE'S business!!
2006-08-04 01:14:42 · answer #6 · answered by cha cha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋