well..girl met this really nice guy and she likes him, but she has her doubts. firstly the guy is her cousin's best mate, like grade school kinda thing. secondly she feels that she's not ready to have another relationship considering the fact that her last one was painful.even though she really likes this guy she isn't sure as to what to really do.
any advice?
2006-08-04 00:42:24 · 15 answers · asked by millie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you are having doubts then I wouldnt go for it. You are having doubts because your heart isnt ready yet
2006-08-04 00:46:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would advice u to take thing slowly and be her friend first, i mean her FRIEND, not the boyfriend. Show that u care for her but do not over do it. I've been in the same shoes before. She won't feel good either, so don't be sad over it. Remember u have to focus on ur studies if u're still studying. Give her support in times of needs. Take it real slow. U'll see the progress. Write it down on ur diary,it'll help. In time, u'll noe when's the rite time. I've been in this situation before. I denied my feelings for that guy and so did he. We maintained as friends. But whenever, we're together we can't help it that we both have a thing 4 each other and it hurts. So near but yet so far.... Hurts.... I can see his pain too. He calls when i'm sick and constantly asking whether i did get well. Sometimes, he juz pretended that he didn't care n it kinda disappoints me. Deep down i noe he have feelings for me but i wanna noe how strong it was. He was warm at one time and cold at another. I was confused.We went on like this for about a year. I finally confessed to him thro a letter. He told me that it was all a MISUNDERSTANDING. So, do not let go.
2006-08-04 08:09:24 · answer #2 · answered by lost 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not be honest about not feeling ready for a relationship, but she'd like to get to know him better. Dating doesn't immediately have to mean relationship. Give it some time with him, see how it feels. As long as she's honest, what should happen will.
2006-08-04 07:48:15 · answer #3 · answered by Kanga_tush2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best advice to give her, since she is confused and not willing to erode herself emotionally, is to let the guy to do the chase and then, if she sees potential in him, to go for him. This system always works. If he does not chase her, he is not that into her, so she can relax and move to the next guy without worrying too much.
2006-08-04 07:59:56 · answer #4 · answered by Sissy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she sould take it slowly. she should drop little hints. if he hint back, she should make the hints bigger and more obvious. before long they will be one thier first date. if it's not how she planned, she can dump him. if it is, she can try again.
order of dates
1. dinner w/ girls family
2. dinner w/ guys family
3. dinner elsewhere
4. movie
5. dancing
6. anything your little heart desires!!!
if she can't do #1 0r 2, she's not ready for him/ he's not the boy she should have
2006-08-04 07:49:00 · answer #5 · answered by Maggs!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are so many diffrnt types of ppl here in tiz world...sometimes u click wid some one sometimes u dnt.....ure last relationship dint work jst becoz he wasnt ure type...tat dsnt mean every relationship ends in bitter memories......
i dnt know y ppl stop liking others becoz someother person hurted them .....wats the fault of tiz person ?
why u still here .... go out and ask him out.....?
and never be afraid of any relationship failing if it has to fail it wil no matter wat how hard u workout things .....and if it has to work it will no matter how hard u try to make it a failure......i do sound sensible rite...umm watver u go out and ask him rightaway.....oh im sryy i thought its abt u ure asking .....but for whoever it is .....i hope u get me .....
2006-08-04 08:11:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it huni Ive a friend who is likes his best mates cousin hes from Tipp shes from dublin(ireland) Im saying to him to g for it too
2006-08-04 07:47:18 · answer #7 · answered by rosa_govan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to come over an old romance is to start a new one....
2006-08-04 07:50:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you "shud" pay attention in school.
Or you "shud" get a job.
Or you "shud" get a life beyond men.
You "shud" ......
learn how to spell "shud" the right way.
2006-08-04 07:51:27 · answer #9 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Birds flying south
And flowers turn blue
If you can't get it by now
Shame on you
2006-08-04 07:46:03 · answer #10 · answered by Roland 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋