Me being a lesbian, I have found this to be quite common, like they say "what do lebians do on their second date?.... Rent a U-Haul!LOL! Any thoughts?
2006-08-03 23:55:40 · 15 answers · asked by krossed4u 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
Yes, sexual activity should be postponed. Real human bonding is a complex process, that should be given the proper time to develop: gazing into each others eyes, holding hands, hours of conversation, emotional bonding, and all this before the real first kiss! Anything less robs the most intimate act of its richness, and reduces the participants to sex toys.
Why not just go out for dinner and dancing? Or just catch a movie together, and fight over the popcorn and jr. mints? Don't deny yourself the fun stuff in a relationship.
2006-08-04 00:03:55 · answer #1 · answered by MamaBear 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even you are not a lesbian, it is definitely improper to have sex on the first date.
2006-08-04 00:01:35 · answer #2 · answered by Pencil 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe that lesbians can have sex. Ask Clinton. He had the legal definition figured out, right?
So I think you mean: "Is it proper etiquette to enjoy sexual stimulation on the first date?" Right?
;-D Well, that is what dating is all about isn't it?
2006-08-04 00:04:49 · answer #3 · answered by China Jon 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I think it is not only improper, but unsafe as well. If it's only the first date, then how can you know the person well enough to be sure they don't have an STD/STI ?
2006-08-05 10:11:44 · answer #4 · answered by Danielle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lesbian, straight whatever, it is improper to engage in any sexual activity on the first date. it under minds and demeans you as a person and your partner for taking advantage of you.
2006-08-04 00:02:46 · answer #5 · answered by PR_DR 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe sex on the first date will curse a budding relationship.
2006-08-04 03:59:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you're careful (i.e. condoms) I don't think there's anything wrong with it. I slept with my husband the first time I met him. We met online, and had been corresponding via email and phone for a few months before we met in person, but I slept with him the first time I met him in person. Four years and two kids later... :D
2006-08-04 01:53:59 · answer #7 · answered by brevejunkie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If neither is either committed nor a virgin and both are adults and a latex condom (if a male is involved in this) is properly used, then there really isn't a problem.
2006-08-04 04:02:37 · answer #8 · answered by wmp55 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes hold off for a while to get to know the person.
2006-08-04 01:03:58 · answer #9 · answered by Rachel Bitchface 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, it's like skank a$$ ***** ho status to play hide the salami on the first date. At least wait till the second date ... geez!!!
2006-08-07 09:35:12 · answer #10 · answered by Samba Queen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋