theres this guy i like and he is amazing we never been out but he used to like me, we got on great but we never went out cos he had to do this racing thing and never had spare time. the earlier this year he said to me that he still liked me and i said that i didnt know how i felt bout hi but i knew that i liked him loads i just didnt want to get hurt again. i havnt stopped thinking about him at all! he is always on my mind and now he likes this other girl and he sends her really nice messages like he used to send me and it really hurts me to see that he has moved on and i wish that i told him i liked him, but i cnt stop thinkin bout him, any advice that you can give would be a great help??
2006-08-03 23:29:19 · 16 answers · asked by meekaboox 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i know it hurt to see that he has move on .but you need to move on to.you need to work on getting yourself to thepoint were you can get pass the way you feel toward him.and stop feeling bad cause you did`t tell him how you feel about him you didn`t wont tobe hurt again.why do you wont to keep gettinghurt by him. dont keep wont tobe put thuogh thatagain. it dont help with what you all ready going thuogh .put him be hind youand move on that`s best thing for you . and STOP thinking about him.iknow its hard but that is what you need to do to start to get over him.and go out with your friends.
2006-08-04 00:32:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sent a message out into space asking for help for something you know you have inside you to do already,
I expect that you just have a few jitters and you are only one little
push away from
having the relationship and the man of your
dreams.
You are right. You left it too late because he has started taking an interest in another girl.
but if you start gently and show him that you are interested in him still and that you know how to make him happy... your situation with him can be salvaged without too much loss of face.
Lets face it.,,, you are beautiful smart and exciting enough to do this.
How about you wrote him an email right now, like the one you hope to get from him.
If you get a positive response and he doesnt give you the cold shoulder, keep it up. Make sure that he knows that you dont want to be double timed, after he decides he wants to meet you but give him every opportunity to think about you in the way that you want to.
If you hold back there is only one thing you'll do... regret it ..
so go girl go.
quit reading answers and message him now.
He's waiting for you ... his perfect partner.
He's making do with second best because he didn't get clear messages from you.
Be powerful
Be strong
Be his woman.
That is all he wants.
go go go
are you still reading or can you flip flip messages on your other hand while you are reading this long long long version of the word
go
hehe
good luck
sincerely
Damian
2006-08-03 23:41:26 · answer #2 · answered by Damian D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey this world and human is very amazed thing. Your problem is not that person or any one who may be attached to u in any way later in life BUT a feelings of hurt by his ignorance towards you, but why u care for a person who is not at all yours and either faithfull and feels selfish too
2006-08-03 23:35:52 · answer #3 · answered by always4yourservice 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) is it truly over between you two??? Is he actually seeing her???
2) do you want to start going out with him???
If he is over you and into this other girl, then move on, but try to be his friend... Always very useful, you can be there for him if things go wrong with this other girl..
Go with the flow and see what happens...
2006-08-03 23:35:46 · answer #4 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Hate the sin, no longer the sinner" is an exceedingly boastful fact and this is totally unhelpful as a results of fact it does not tackle the actuality that what's seen a sin with the aid of one guy or woman is in simple terms no longer a sin to a distinctive guy or woman. some branches of Christianity view maximum issues human beings do for excitement as sinful.
2016-09-28 21:41:28 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
may be things change if u talk to him. just go and talk to him. not as a girl but as a frnd. things may change in ur part as u just talk to him. some times it happens that we have a egar to talk to the person. its does not means that we love him or something. its just as we spend time with persons with whom our level matches.
if i would b in ur place i would go ahead, ask him for a coffee as a frnd and talk to him that "see i don't know what is it. all i know is i love talking to u. lets be frnd". this way u can be in touch with him, the more u guys meet u will be able to know whr actually the relationship is heading.
and give a space to ur relationship to grow.
take care
2006-08-03 23:45:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him u would like to go on in an relationships and would sort of like to start over. U need to tell him u are still into him and that u love him louds
2006-08-03 23:35:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would've done the same if I was him, why must he wait for you when he's made it clear he likes you, but you keep letting him down. Wake up please? You only want what you cant have, you make problems for yourself.I If you like him as much as you say, you wouldve told him and not care about his busy schedule. That's love, my dear.He's not going to wait for you. He probably thinks you're not interested, coz you keep letting him down.
2006-08-03 23:40:49 · answer #8 · answered by Jade22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hello. Always remember that love begets love. It should always be a two way love. Fish needs water not the water needs fish. Good luck.
2006-08-03 23:37:27 · answer #9 · answered by Hardil 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your jealous and you only want him because sometimes we only want what we can't have. Move on, maybe somewhere down the line he will have interest in you again.
-NmD!
2006-08-03 23:33:27 · answer #10 · answered by NoMaD! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋