2006-08-03 23:09:32 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
where are u pulling him to??
2006-08-03 23:12:36 · answer #1 · answered by Dawn C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ladies......here is my advice. Boys and girls are instinctively different in the way they pull and like to be pulled.
Yes....you may think boys are easy 'cos all you have to do is smile and flutter your eyelashes and most of them will melt. That's the upside of being female BUT beware!!!
Men fall in lust (fake love) with a woman's sexuality/ the image of a woman very quickly but they just as easily forget about her.
If you want to get more than a short term interest from your man then you need to make him work a little bit for you. Let him get closer and continue to show interest but take things slowly. The more he invests in the attraction for you the more likely he will stick around after you have sex with him.
To get a male to pairbond you need to gently escalate the sexual contact over several week so that there is always sexual tension but when you finally have sex it will be fantastic for both of you. The key is get him in love with you as well as the IDEA of you which is more sexual/instinctive.
If, after the first time you have sex you can keep improving it so that you are having regular intimacy. This is a sure fire way to capture his heart but take it slowly and keep that sexual tension high. As long as you don't flatly reject his advances but gently resist them with a giggle and a flirt you will be fine. Keep him keen, keep him coming back and investing time and effort in you and he will pair-bond.
Viking xxx
2006-08-04 06:51:18 · answer #2 · answered by Viking 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends what kind of boy. 90% of the time, if you just be yourself around a boy, and take your time , eventually they will probably try to pull you.
2006-08-04 06:14:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
how do u pull a girl ?
2006-08-04 06:12:16 · answer #4 · answered by millertime06 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uh...um...erm...poo.
i used to know how but now im pretty fed up wih relationships..but thats a long story...im sure i wont be like this for too.i guess you just have to be yourself just more of the exciting you.the rest depends on the guy i guess.
sorry i couldn't help that much...
2006-08-04 06:17:43 · answer #5 · answered by ♥āngelic♥děmon♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go and tell him you want him.you might feel embaressed but they will be flattered and empressed that your are confident enough to do it.
if they arent feeling you then they will say, but no one decent would be rude about it.
Confidence is very attractive!!!
2006-08-04 06:21:49 · answer #6 · answered by honeylips 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well where are you pulling him too?becasue thats not not if your going to pull someone.
2006-08-04 06:16:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get to know him better, find out what he's into, see if he's interested in you, then where ever your pulling him to, it should eventually work.
@(^_^)@
2006-08-04 06:14:11 · answer #8 · answered by silent-guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you get a rope around one ankle when he isn't paying attention works the best.
-NmD!
2006-08-04 06:14:05 · answer #9 · answered by NoMaD! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
like you pull your dog while you tahe him on walks.
2006-08-04 06:16:26 · answer #10 · answered by Ishan Gupta 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋