Things were going great & looking back on all the things he said and did I know that he really loves & cares 4 me - he was the one who made all the moves and chased me relentlessly and I always responded i never teased or played hard to get. 3-4 weeks ago we had a huge fight and i haven't heard from him since. I called him about a week afterward to ask if we were still ok & he said he needed some space, i said to him if he could say he didn't love me anymore i'd walk away and leave him be but he said "i can't say that". The twist is that he is in a long term relationship which has been dead in the water for years (i know this coz we were met as friends years ago and nothings changed) & they have kids together. After 3-4 weeks do u think he's coming back or has he settled for staying put for the kids coz that was a big deal 4 him when we talked about him leaving and us getting together permanently? How much time do I give???? I don't know about guy things like this!!!
2006-08-03 22:59:36 · 13 answers · asked by rizzo6eleven 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't give him any more time. Of course he said he couldn't say he didn't love you, that would mean you'd walk away and nobody likes to be left. If he really loved you, he wouldn't still be in his other relationship. It's entirely possible to still be a great father, and not be with the mother.
2006-08-03 23:05:43 · answer #1 · answered by Kanga_tush2 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey hi cheer up,if u really love him ,have faith.u told he had a relation earlier and had a child,so he is not a guy who blieves in beaking up.sp he'll surely come back to u,wait for the righ timeand as he said give him some space.any relation in this world would stand only on two great walls.trust and understanding.so try to understand him well and put back the trust he lost in u.ok
everything will be allright,dont wory
take cre of u and him aswell
byeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee
chris
2006-08-03 23:10:09 · answer #2 · answered by BLR_DEHRADUN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice would be for you to find someone who can dedicate themselves to you fully. It sounds like he was with you for the feeling of being free and non serious. Your argument will have had a serious tone that made him panick and realise the relationship is serious. It would have forced him to confront his feelings about you and his family and make a choice. I would say he has already made that choice. Move on and tell him to decide if his future is with his family. I do not think you should have a future together though.
2006-08-03 23:08:54 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe you need to think through the relationship again from a different point of view.
Think about a man who loves his children but can't get along with his wife.
That's a man who has motivation to sweet talk his way into your affection and enjoy you while he can.
2006-08-03 23:19:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When a man says he wants his space, it means he wants it minus you being in it. He may love you which is why he won't say that but he knows he cannot for whatever reason. You need to leave him be, and move on. Maybe someday he will want you in his life again.
-NmD!
2006-08-03 23:04:54 · answer #5 · answered by NoMaD! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HA! u got no chance here babes!! though his realtionship wid his wife or gf is dead...the relation wid his pups still exists!! n that's where u loose out....he won't be urs 'cause he's already got some ...al he wants is sex,sex n SEX!!
if that's what u want too...go ahead give him a week or so ...n them lure himinto ur trap by seduction !!!
2006-08-03 23:16:31 · answer #6 · answered by sam 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what a catch, cheats on the mother of his kids. he did it to her he'll do it to you. he's not going to leave her for you, that would have already happened by now. If it was as great as you say it was, hed still be talking to you.
2006-08-03 23:15:49 · answer #7 · answered by nikomat77 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him alone. You do not go out with or have sex with people who are in a relationship because you will be branded a home wrecker
2006-08-03 23:08:31 · answer #8 · answered by scarlet pimpernell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey I am sorry to hear that, looks like he does need his privacy now for his own kids and his woman.
he has left you for good apparently, so dont fret, let him go.
2006-08-03 23:06:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if theres kids in the pic dont waste ur tym waiting for him .... even if he does come back he will go back to them oneday ....
2006-08-03 23:08:01 · answer #10 · answered by jenn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋