The other night i went to a carnival and ended up meetin with my ex when it had finished who i recently broke up with. He then told me he thinks he loves me and i told him he didnt and that he was just sayin it because he was drunk and held my hand, then when we heard people coming he let go of my hand and then i said thats how i know he doesnt love me, which he then held my hand again before we got to the people who were walking home. What does this mean? I then spent the night at his to.
2006-08-03 22:54:18 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why would he hold my hand again? Was it to prove he meant what he said? He tells me cares so much all the time and when i saw him out and i walked passed him he grabbed me and started kissin me infront of everyone
2006-08-03 23:01:14 · update #1
Also when he saw a group of guys huggin me all at once to keep me warm he came over and pulled me out and gave me a hug and started gettin frustrated and sayin horrible stuff about all the other guys
2006-08-03 23:03:45 · update #2
he's a player.
2006-08-03 22:58:03 · answer #1 · answered by retrac_enyaw03 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that you didn't give him a chance to clear him self, some people just dont know how to reveal there love.
i will tell you something:
before 4 years i used to love a girl and she used to say that she love me, and after a 1 year of a love relationship she came one day and told me:
forget everything between us.
and then i was shocked and i asked her what the problem, what i did to you??? she didn't answer me at all and just start walking away and crying.
i left her alone for a week and then i walked to her and when she saw me she started walking away from me so i ran and grabbed her arm just to stop and hear me, she started shouting on me and she slapped me two times, and she even didn't allow me to talk.
and the next day, she told my friends that i attacked her!!!
all what i wanted is a chance to understand what the hell is going around.
and since that day i never talked to her, and to this day i dont know WHY she did that.
Can you tell me??? debilo911@yahoo.com
i hope that i helped you with my story
2006-08-04 06:08:16 · answer #2 · answered by Eng. Bilal Al-Bataina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
D,
Yahoo decided you and I emailed each other too much and cut us off. He was drunk? D he isn't as inhibited when he has been drinking, and he told you how he felt. He's in love with you D. That's why he risked getting his *** kicked by a bunch of other guys. Getting drunk, and going to the fair, and hollerin at other guys....he doesn't want to be your ex. So now you get to decide...what do you want D?
Love always,
Kram
2006-08-04 06:43:19 · answer #3 · answered by kram k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you're afraid of being alone or of starting a new relationship with someone else. I think you have low self esteem and can't find someone better. I think that if you had more respect for yourself that you'd just listen to your gut feeling(s) about this man and just leave him. He's not ready to commit and I don't think you are either because you can't make up your mind.
2006-08-04 06:00:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him how he feels about you when he is sober. Then you will have your answer. It was a mistake for you to spend the night at his place that night. You should have waited until you knew what his true feelings were. Unless of course you do not want him back and were just looking for sex yourself.
2006-08-04 06:00:30 · answer #5 · answered by Erin M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drunk hard on's! Mistake ,mistake, mistake! Past should be left where it belongs! This second can be ur turning point of ur future love life... only if u r honest with urself! Good luck!
2006-08-04 06:04:41 · answer #6 · answered by Ecat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like it means what it means. He was drunk and wanted to "get lucky" and he did not care who with. He did not want anyone to know he was with you or he would not have let go of your hand. You simply let yourself get used by this tool.
2006-08-04 06:00:34 · answer #7 · answered by GoneByDawn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Comon!!....i'm damn suprised dat u can't make out what he's upto!!
hey girl, he's just playin wid u n maybe even sex is on his mind!!
dump him as u had done bfor 'cause he's just tryin to lure u into his trap!!
go homebaby ...dis man isn't for ya!!
2006-08-04 06:04:55 · answer #8 · answered by sam 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would like you to know that when ppl say stuff when they are intoxicated pretty much alot of ppl take it seriously and they mean alot of stuff they say i pretty much know from experience too and especially professionals like take things serious so figure it out on your own with him and have a really good chat with him
2006-08-04 06:04:02 · answer #9 · answered by angel_01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means he was drunk and you were stupid. Drunk people love everyone. He was also horny and probably knew you were dumb enough to go home with him. Guess he was right.
2006-08-04 06:01:38 · answer #10 · answered by charice266 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he fancies you only when he's drunk cos booze lowers our standards. Also, he is embarrassed by you so he doesnt want anyone else to know he's trying to jump you.
You stayed at his place, pleeeeeaaaaazzzzee!!!
2006-08-04 05:59:41 · answer #11 · answered by vaivagabundo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋