I mean, what would u do if u sat on a chair in a bus and someone from behind u grabbed ur waist and he is sure that noone has seen him...would u hit him or shout or change ur seat or what??
I wanna know coz it happened to my sis and she just got off the bus....
2006-08-03 22:45:56 · 24 answers · asked by what goes around comes around 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
I would immediately stand up and yell at the guy then change my seat. I think you should make a scene, then everyone including the bus driver is aware of the situation and what kind of fruitcake they're dealing with. Maybe the psycho will think again next time he tries this on someone else. You should never just let someone get away with this kind of thing because they'll just do it again.
2006-08-03 22:55:30 · answer #1 · answered by Valkyrie 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I think the best thing to do is shame the offender in public. If you are sure that a guy is the offender, shout at him in public and tell everybody what he has done. The one who should leave the bus is the offender not you, so if you make a scandal of his behaviour he would do so for sure. If he is a usual customer of the line, you have to warn him that next time you see him at 10 m. from you, you will report him to the Police
2006-08-04 06:25:49 · answer #2 · answered by Sissy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
actually it is a really tricky situation.
your sister can be friendly if the person who has grabbed your sister is a friend.
if it is a stranger, it is good to be quicky-wit by shouting for help in the bus for the hero to the rescue. if there is public-sprited passenger, only from experience and knowledge of the locals, then thereis likely help. if there is little help forthcoming, better forget the incident than making an embarassement for oneself in the public.
if your sister is very sure of help from a policeman, just warn the man to step back and go away in a nice way. it may help with avoidng nasty situation with such unlikely event. unless there is physical harm or damge to the clothing, it shouold be dealt with with as little fanfare as possible.
you may never know who the next guy wanting to do this in the bus with you, the next time. act cautiously with common sense in dressing, voice and look out for safer place always to avoid possible trouble spot.
2006-08-04 05:57:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it happened to me once,but thank God i was pissed that day (for whatever reasons i cant remember) so i didn't have to think twice about hitting him to let out some pent up anger!
the bus driver was very nice too, he kicked the guy outta the bus!
most girls will just get off the bus at the next stop. i don't think this is the right thing to do cuz why should we run? we didn't do anything wrong.
sigh..... but unfortunately, when we are caught in these situations, we tend to just avoid confrontation.... its easier to forget i guess.
i hope your sister is alright now. regards
2006-08-04 05:55:17 · answer #4 · answered by Rainbow nation 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not hit him but yell for helps. The bus driver will attent to your needs. And often the authority will take your / lady words for it.
Leave the bus and the baddy is going to get another person the next time.
2006-08-04 05:51:00 · answer #5 · answered by Dennis O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wud not give a very harsh reaction.
if i were a girl i wud just get the act in public notice and then slap him.
i wud surely encourage people hiting him with me.
lastly a police man wud arrive on my call and them put him behind the bars.
tat wud make me comfortable tat no other girl is a victim
2006-08-04 05:54:07 · answer #6 · answered by miths 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Complain to the driver and have him arrested for common assault. There is no need to put up with this nonsense on a buss and letting the perpetrators away with it encourages more.
2006-08-04 05:51:11 · answer #7 · answered by PlayTOE- 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, definietely try to save yourself...shout and try to kick him in the middle, but be careful not to miss or else you are in trouble and tell the bus driver...you are allowed to protect yourself
2006-08-07 20:55:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I pretend not to notice and "accidently" drill my stiletto heel a few centimetres into his foot and then move away saying sorry in my sweetest voice...
2006-08-04 07:22:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
step on his feet and shout and get off the seat.
2006-08-04 05:53:03 · answer #10 · answered by lx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋