i dated this guy for 10 months...and we broke up two weeks ago...it didnt really bother me until one day i just woke up and he was the first thing on my mind...can someone please tell me how to get over him cause he's all i think about....ive even tryed to just move on cause i know were through for good but i cant its killing me cause i cant talk to him or see him....will someone please help me?
2006-08-03 22:42:00 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Eat ice cream, talk to friends...let it all out when you need to...
Go out with friends..you may not feel like it, but it will make you feel better I promise. Watch movies, read books, KEEP BUSY.
Xx
2006-08-03 22:47:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, think very well about what this guy meant to you. If your relatinon ship brought happines to you or if you were feeling better before to start dating him. Try to be positive about the future and if you decide you want to get back together with him write him a sms, an e-mail or a letter if you really don't feel able to talk to him face to face. At first you can be just friends; this will help you realise what you really want. If you decide to forget him, admit you've loved him but that you can do better without him. Start a new life, throw away everything that would remind you of him, try a new hair cut and maybe go on a diet. But never imagine that without him your life's gone. Good luck!
2006-08-04 06:07:52 · answer #2 · answered by alexutza1992 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the best thing you can do is to have some attention from someone else, you may never forget him but it will get easier if hes not always on your mind. try joining a website like www.thailovelounge.com and chat to some other people, everyone goes through it at some point in the life and everyone has different ways of dealing with it.
2006-08-04 05:59:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Moving on purely depends on the person.. There's nothing more we can do but give advice.. But then, it's up to you to follow our advices or not.. You did say you tried to move on, so I won't even suggest you to do that..
It'a hard.. I know.. Instead of coping yourself home or somewhere to think, why not go out with your friends? Go shopping or bar hopping.. It helps a lot to be with your friends to keep you busy. Try meeting new people at different places. Open up yourself to new acquiantances and stop thinking about your past.. Keep yourself busy.. Work-out, have part-time job, chat on the net, anything to keep you busy..
I don't know if others told you to call him up to say 'hi'.. But whatever you do, don't do just that because you'll end up wanting more than just hearing his voice.. It's good if you two ended up being friends but do that if you are completely over him..
Get your mind working on other things. Hope I helped =)
2006-08-04 05:50:14 · answer #4 · answered by Lei 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop thinking about him when you wake up .go to work go for a walk go out with your girl friends and don't think about him .tell your Friends if they see you go to the phone to call him make you put it down.girl you need to move on with your life.and stop thinking of him . do what you was doing before you meet him.don't just sit around thinking about him or sitting around being sad crying or looking at movies . you need to get up and goon with your life .when the time is right you will get over him and find some one else.
2006-08-04 06:16:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well there is your answer if you know that you are over for good you have to let him go. No use holding on to someone when its over. Make yourself busy do things go places keep occupied.
You will forget him soon enough
2006-08-04 05:50:02 · answer #6 · answered by destiny 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Y cant u call him just as friends. Find something 2 do in yr spare x. Keep occupied. Interact more with yr family members.
2006-08-04 05:55:41 · answer #7 · answered by lynnbtohs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GO OUT !!!!! go out go out go out.... hang out with girlfreinds... go 2 clubs social settings where there is potential to meet new ppl...... give some guys your number..... doesnt mean u owe him anything,.. but just as u know that there are possibilities out there should make u feel better..... but do anything but stay in and have those talks with your gf's get the phuck out there and have fun....
2006-08-04 05:50:54 · answer #8 · answered by millertime06 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are the reason to break the relation call him and say that you want to talk to him, go out to a nice place where you both like to have dine, and say him sorry and wont repeate this againg. and say him that he is with you all these days. ( in your mind)
2006-08-04 05:52:29 · answer #9 · answered by Chikky D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Joey_xx talks sense, KEEP BUSY and don't call him you'll only end up having to start from scratch again.
2006-08-04 05:50:36 · answer #10 · answered by Katie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋