I've known this guy for more than a year. 3 months in the relationship, he started to be cold.And now I can say the relationship is dying if not already rotten.But still I keep hoping that he'll soon come to his senses.Nothing changed.And then he decided to move out.I wanted to be the first to leave and not be stepped on again.I wouldn't be able to take another blow.Specially if he's the one who'll get the last laugh.But before doing this I wanted to hurt this guy badly...make him realize every single emotional and mental pain he caused me.But how can you hurt someone who doesn't care anymore? Please SOS.
2006-08-03 22:16:28 · 19 answers · asked by BatteredHeart 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
stop careing yourself.if your hurt and let him know it, then he has already won.if your hurt and act like your not, then his ego is bruised, even if he doesn't admitt it.
2006-08-03 22:23:25 · answer #1 · answered by retrac_enyaw03 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go into his closet and cut off the sleeve of all his shirts on the side to the back of the closet. If he has already moved out, you can put up signs with his picture and the word predator underneath all over his neighborhood.
Seriously tho, I'd skip the revenge and just move on with your life. He is likely to just think you're psycho, not that you're hurting. Just give yourself all the love you've been giving him and soon you will wonder why you ever thought he was worth fussing about.
2006-08-03 22:27:11 · answer #2 · answered by Kuji 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't want to hurt him; you just want to feel good again. Hurting someone might feel good for a moment, but if you’re a basically decent person, you will just wind up feeling small for lowering to some sub level of human just to try and be as bad as he was.
I wanted to move out first, is more a tit for tat move.
Look back on the past at how miserable you were and realize how big of a bullet you just dodged. Remember the better angels of your nature, and move upward and onward. The worst thing you can do to any miserable person, and leave them to it.
2006-08-03 22:40:18 · answer #3 · answered by Sen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore him and dont act like you care either. Dont show any sad emotions, dont show that he's hurt you, act like its no big deal. He'll get the feeling that you've never thought much of him and that he was just another guy you were wasting some time with.
2006-08-03 22:23:11 · answer #4 · answered by I Am Jack's Wasted Life 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was born to answer this question. But your not going to lisson to me. You need to not caring too. 100% That will fores him to care. He will come crawling back. You need to make your self think as tho you will never care again for it to work. But then you have a problem cuz you don't care any more, lol. And as soon as you start caring he'll stop.
But think about it this is the only thing you haven't tried if your dispirit
2006-08-03 22:26:40 · answer #5 · answered by Gumby G 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You hurt him by doing absolutely nothing. Seriously, it's true. Someone like him is always kept cotent as long as you are reacting. My advice is to ignore him, never speak to him again, delete his number from your phone and start seeing someone else. If you really want to twist the knife, get a gorgeous date and go somewhere you're likely to see your ex and ignore him and carry on like you're having the time of your life (don't overdo it). Good luck!!
2006-08-03 22:22:45 · answer #6 · answered by AMY S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHY would you want to be with someone like that? The only way you can hurt a person who doesn't care is to be happy without them. The reason is because he KNOWS you are pining for him and he gets off on it. He knows that he is hurting you but he doesn't care. SO if you go on with your life and be happy that is the only way. good luck and remember love yourself enough to be truly loved.
2006-08-03 22:28:38 · answer #7 · answered by trouble comes a knockin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesn't care about you, you can't hurt him. Period. The only person you're hurting, by obssessing about this guy is you. Is he worth this self-hurt? No, he isn't. Stop hurting yourself, get out, live life and find someone who actually deserves your affection.
2006-08-03 22:23:00 · answer #8 · answered by Samantha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you can do like this, ask some of your friend (boy) to act like your boyfriend. you start talking to him, meet him when your boy friend sees you both are talking, and act like you are over the phone talking to the other guy, just act that you give him a gift and you are getting closer in relation to the person more then the one you love.
good luck.
2006-08-03 22:31:57 · answer #9 · answered by Chikky D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Revenge s not the answer - thing is you prolly cant do anything to him.. so dont worry. You will actually have the last laugh, even though it seems vice versa. anyways, jsut ignore him.
Persevere.
2006-08-03 22:23:18 · answer #10 · answered by Hyphon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best option for you is not to hurt him, rather to protect yourself. Let your feelings go for this idiot. Don't get whipped like most women do. Be liberal and independent!
2006-08-03 22:23:56 · answer #11 · answered by Phillip R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋