Do you think its bad to have more than 1 boyfriend ?

Question

I have at least two boyfriends. I am not really 'in love' with any of them. I just like them as friends. Am I being dishonest ?

Answer 1

no , you aren't ..
it is an interesting thing to have such a variety in relations .

Answer 2

If they don't know about each other, then it's not honest. You might end up hurting them and that's the worse feeling. Hurting someone else is sometimes worse than being hurt yourself! So think of them and just be honest with them that you are dating other people too. If they're not cool with that, let them leave since you said you don't love either of them, it shouldn't be that hard. Save your time and energy for someone who you love and loves you back. Most of the time, they come when you're not even looking!

Answer 3

If they know how you feel about them, they know what their into and you wont hurt them. If you have s3x with both of them, then you must be responsible and know that things will be said about you that you wont like (like you're a $lut,etc). If you dont mind them doing the same( having other girls incl you), then at least you wont get hurt and you're all on the same page.Do what you want, but I would never do that, its wrong.

Answer 4

its not bad.. but u're being dishonest when u tell them that u love them.. let them know that its not love and u're just trying spend some time with them.. make sure u can handle the 2:1 situation..

Answer 5

You shouldn't call them boyfriends, maybe flirting buddies? lol. The way I see it is you cant have more than 1 person you're serious with in a relationship. I dont think you have a serious relationship you're just fooling around.

Answer 6

Yes, if you are the person who just loves to play around, it's not nice. peopl will think of you as a bad girl, and if you want men to respect yoiu or ther person you shouldn't do that. Be honest to your self and dont play around with anubody's feeking and emotions.

Youll regret it soon cos it will come back to you.

Answer 7

That would be boys that are friends, putting the two words together makes it look like your dating both. If they are just friends you can have as many as you want

Answer 8

first off, you must know what your real purpose is for being with these two guys. if you're not in love with any of them, you must be honest to yourself and especially to them. it is very unfair if they're with you because they love you and you're just having fun with them. think if someone you love is doing that to you, would you like it too? i bet that you dont want someone else to do this to you too. so give justice. guys have feelings too and you're not suppose to play with it. if you dont love any of them, then you should break up with both of them.

Answer 9

No , if your intetions are good , even you can extend more friends in your circle , friends dose not means you have to be in love , keep on going and enjoy life with sensible mind .It is healthy , you need not to feel guilty at all .

Answer 10

Yes, it's wrong. If you have more than one "friend" then that's fine, but if you are dating these men, there should only be one, and you should be honest with them about your feelings. Polygamy is illegal in these here United States ya know.

Answer 11

hey it depends on u!! if they r jus ur friends u can;t call then as ur bf's.. if u hav some feeling for one of them or both then its not a feeling its jus attraction or a crush!! if its love then it will happen only once!! only with one person !!! but yeah u can keep b'fs no doubt many 4 u should consider all of them as ur love!! or attraction!! or even crush!!