I am 20 year old guy with gynecomastia(male breast).I have no friends bcoz i am affraid of talking with people.there is a some kind of fear in my mind.Secondly when i speak with people they don't understand my speech.I totally frustrated due to Gynecomastia.I can't afford the surgery.It cost about $3000 in india.Plus I have other tension related to family property as well.Ifeel like some has kept a 10,000 pounds of weight on my head.Should i live or u know this word?
2006-08-03 22:01:19 · 8 answers · asked by endapagoa 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
Wow... take it slow. Really. This gynecomastia thing is probably due to unhealthy eating and little exercise maybe. (i dont know sry) so try exercising and eating healthyly. you really have to mkae friends. You REALLY do. Don't rush it, it takes time, but do not be afraid of talking to people. really, dont be afraid. its true that they can be judgemental, but wjhat you have to put in your mind is that you are better than those judgemental people out there. try not to let any insults go to your head. Avoid those people. Hang out with the good crowd. Ask you parents or relatives to introduce you to some friends of theiirs or soemthing. You really need freinds to support you. they are out there somewhere.. or here :)
Good luck
2006-08-03 22:09:18 · answer #1 · answered by Hyphon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One thing wonderful about the human species, is that no matter how different you are, there is always someone in existence at the same time you are, that can relate to you and make you feel comfortable by being around them.
The key is finding this person, and others like them. The quest will make you heartsad, even more than it already has, but when you find these people, you will see and feel a light like you never imagined. Like a flower blooming. You will be the sun that moves from behind the moon and shines light once again, no matter your issues, physical, mental, medical. It's all about the spirit. I wish you luck, and do not envy you. Be strong.
2006-08-03 22:08:27 · answer #2 · answered by TwilightWalker97 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this may sound like I'm trivializing your problems, but the truth of the matter is...EVERYBODY has problems & fears. I have struggled with a poor complexion for years. However, I have learned to develop a good sense of humor to "compensate" for my fear of being rejected. Now people look forward to when I'm around. My best friend is only 30, but he's as bald as a que ball & wears those thick lensed glasses. Although he has a very calm & relaxing personality, he feels inferior because of his being bald. My boss at work whom I really enjoy being around has skin tags all over her face & she's self conscious about them. Her boss has Irritable Bowel Syndrome & feels inferior because of that.
You see; we ALL have our own struggles, but we have to live & have friends or we'll go crazy with fear & isolation.
I would encourage you to develop some of your better qualities & then step out & make some friends. Friends will not care about your faults because they will have faults, too. Friends accept each other for WHO they are. They love each other in spite of their problems.
2006-08-04 00:56:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg im not gonna be a bit** and say somthing like
you neen help..........
its all inside your mind
take a day off experience something new
go talk to someone new even if its an older person or even a really
young child
tomorrow you should just try to forget your problems
and act like nothings wrong
and once u start believing others will too..
and in no time youll be making friends like drinking water
:)
2006-08-03 22:13:25 · answer #4 · answered by that girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Things will get better for you. Just be yourself. Everyone has imperfections and flaws. Bother with people who like you for you. Bad things will come to pass.
2006-08-03 22:09:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
man... stop being too self conscious. u shouldnt give a s.h.i.t how u look. live as u wana live. dont care abt any body else. every thing gonna settle down.
2006-08-03 22:07:39 · answer #6 · answered by waz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
were some big baggy cloths, jog, exercise, or just plick em off if they say something you dont like.
2006-08-03 22:17:23 · answer #7 · answered by Jake 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should talk to your doctor.
2006-08-03 22:07:00 · answer #8 · answered by Kanda 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋