do u male guys out there who r in relationships,share evrythg 2gether?the happiness?the sorrows?or u guys just share those things with ur gurl frens coz u dont want ur gurlfren to know that all the sorrows that ur going thru?
2006-08-03 21:31:51 · 11 answers · asked by 'perfect' gurl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes we do share all
2006-08-03 21:38:00 · answer #1 · answered by iknowitall 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anymore if I'm in a serious relationship, I play all the cards face-up. reason being, say your closest aunt got diagnosed with cancer and has_ months left. You don't tell your girl cause she has enuf stress and you don't wanna add to it(pretty damn good reason) the out-come is that you're acting a little different. she notices and wonders why. You tell her nothings wrong. Now she thinks it's something she did and tries to figure it out without presuring you but now she's a little insecure. By the time it all gets straitened out(if it ever does) you've caused way more stress than the original problem ever would have if dealt with straightforewardly(is that a word)
2006-08-04 04:44:18 · answer #2 · answered by CJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i share everything with my best friend (who is also my girlfriend). And she even shares everything with me. There is nothing hidden between us. And I say that u keep one best friend who can share ur sorrows and happiness. It does not matter whether it is male/female.
2006-08-04 04:38:12 · answer #3 · answered by cool_new2006 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
male guys as oposed to female guys?
i share nothing with no one, i do things on my own and am happy with that.
my conquests and therefoire my spoils and rewards
i have no sorrows but if i did i would solve them instead of sharing them.
my hapiness is for me because i worked to achieve it, not someone else
2006-08-04 04:40:01 · answer #4 · answered by zether 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Generally most of the guys don't tell about their sorrows. They feel this way they will potray that they are weak, By telling their problems to their GF hurts their ego.. This is the way most of them are.
2006-08-04 04:39:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
in therapy, i learned to share EVERYTHING. i soon found out that some partners don't want your 'shares' or may even attack you for sharing tears, sorrow, confusion, and other 'weak' feelings/thoughts with them. it's about finding out what others will tolerate and negotiating about communications.
thankfully, my current partner/spouse is able and willing to accept ALL of me and I accept ALL of her. she also has do some therapy.
2006-08-04 04:47:34 · answer #6 · answered by jimrich 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm the kind of guy that will help his girl through all her troubles, but she will only discover a fraction of mine if any. I hide my problems so I don't burdun others with them...It's my nature.
2006-08-04 04:35:54 · answer #7 · answered by Zach 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
men dont share all that much in new relationships - if in one for a while then I think it is better to.
2006-08-04 04:37:30 · answer #8 · answered by drewwers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we share everything...and there is no use in hiding from a best friend
2006-08-04 04:35:48 · answer #9 · answered by MaxMetallica 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i tell my g/f everything.we go through the good times and the bad times together.
2006-08-04 04:35:20 · answer #10 · answered by retrac_enyaw03 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋