girl and guys..im just intrested in wot u lot fink is ryt for a first daye coz everi 1 had diferent boundaries, thanks yas xxxxx
2006-08-03
21:25:43
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btw im not askin this coz i wanna no wot i shud do im just intrested in how far ud go xxx
2006-08-03
21:26:22 ·
update #1
ok critical ppl..i did say im not askin coz i want advise im askin coz i like to no wot other ppl fink!!so keep ya wigs on!!! xxx and btw i am old enuff and no its mornin cheers hu ever u r xxx
2006-08-03
21:35:16 ·
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Don't expect anything and accept everything!!!
Then your date will be full of surprises that will make it a happy one!
2006-08-03 21:38:08
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answered by Cool Guy 3
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Okay ladies...listen up. If you want to get with a decent kind of guy who isn't just in the game for a quick lay but actually wants to know and have a fullfilling sexual relationship then you must accept that he will be screening/testing you on the first few dates.
On a first date I typically test a young lady's intention by offering to pay for everything up front. The bright ones will accept the chivalrous gesture in the way in which it is intended but also offer to make some sort of contribution. i.e Maybe she'll offer to get dessert or take care of a couple of drinks.
This way you know you're not with a raving feminist who won't accept anything from a man but you also know you're not with a horrible gold digger who exploits men.
On a first date I keep the kino (touching) constant but casual and totally non-sexual. Regular touching of the arm, taking the hands for a few seconds, a flat palm briefly placed in the small of the back to guide her to her seat are all excellent ways of gently escalating physical contact without coming on to heavy.
I NEVER go for a kiss at the end of a date. Too much pressure......chances are, if you're together and there's that moment you suspect she wants to be kissed. Just slowly lean in, check her reaction.......if she maintains eye contact and doesn't withdraw then you've just got the red light.
Keep it gentle and keep the sexual tension going. Don't let her get any more than a nice kiss on the lips on a first date. She will be dying to meet you again....
Viking xxx
2006-08-05 07:46:12
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answered by Viking 2
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On a first date i expect nerves sickness and quite often an hour or so on the loo before the date.
Once on the date though if i really like someone and feel relaxed i expect a few giggles and comfortable silences and that tingle you get when your hands brush against each other.
2006-08-07 14:47:00
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answered by Girl From Mars 3
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personally i'd have to take the grl for a nice meal obviously the asker has 2 pay. Afterwards we'd go down the beach for a nice romantic walk and wach the sun set.
once the date has ended i'd walk/drive her home and seal the date with a passionate kiss.
2006-08-04 04:31:24
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answered by Chronos 2
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a second date....so don't give him anything except a good time and a kiss goodnight. He'll be back for more that way!
I also expect a man to pay on the first date and be a gentleman. I don't give a **** after that!
2006-08-04 04:37:11
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answered by Gypsie 5
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A nice time with lots of fun dont like 1 night stands
2006-08-04 04:37:47
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answered by SEAN S 2
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Depends on how well you get along with the girl, i've had sex on the first date but also i've had a hug after the forst date. It all depends on you get on with the person
2006-08-04 12:20:07
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answered by quamig 3
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You shouln't need to ask this question - do what your heart (and head) feels right for YOU - so it therefore depends on who you are with, what YOU think/feel about them and whether, if you do feel it is right what opportunity you have to accomplish what you feel you might like to do about it.
2006-08-04 04:33:30
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answered by ? 5
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obviously everyone is different but for me a quick kiss is nice but sex is too far . . . a bit of mystery just keeps the excitement and sexual tension going! ;)
2006-08-04 04:31:01
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answered by Empress 6
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i wouldn't expect anything. because every girl is unique and won't follow a set structure. that's what makes a girl exciting. If anything i would like to know that they enjoyed themselves and would like to do it again sometime :).
2006-08-04 04:42:48
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answered by Anonymous
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