i had sex with this guy even thought he made it clear he dont love me the way i want him to ... i thought sex would change him and make him love me i give him everything and i never ask for anything in return all i want is love coz i don have love in my family and we are breaking up i want fell loved for once i never was ....
what should i do
hes driving me crazy
2006-08-03 21:05:03 · 14 answers · asked by lost heart 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's getting what he wants with no strings attached. Start ignoring him. Don't give him everything he wants. He might realize that he has feelings for you if you do. If nothing happens, then he is not worth it, whether you like it or not. You don't want to pressure someone into being with you and you can't force him to love you. You wouldn't want to end up with someone that just wants you for sex. Believe me, if he doesn't work out, there will be someone else that will love you, so don't waste too much time with this one, you may lose the opportunity to find Mr. Right.
2006-08-03 21:10:22 · answer #1 · answered by BluePassion 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sex my dear is not the answer, if he really loved u you woulden't be feeling this way. i know how u feel though, my husband abandoned me and my son back in july right after my daddy died and i had a miscarriage. i can no longer have children, and all he did was throw it it my face that i would never be able to have a little girl.i'm glad he's gone, even though i don't like being alone, my son keeps me going. I have a Love of a lifetime though that i will always wait for forever. she knows who she is. that's right, no man on the face of this earth will ever do that to me again. take care and good luck.
2006-08-03 21:14:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetiie, done been there and done that.I thought I loved this guy so much that he did'nt have to love me back. I got sick and tired of being sick and tired and let him go. 2 weeks later I found or we found eachother and August the 8th it will be 19 years of marriage. (wonderful years.) If love dont come easy and natural its not love. Life is too short to spend like this, How can u get Mr.Righht when u r hanging on to Mr. Wrong? Let Go And Let God....Good Luck
2006-08-03 21:15:42 · answer #3 · answered by mamagirl65 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry for your situation. But you've never felt love, sex is not love, he never loved you...find someone who LOVES you for who you are without asking you for sex...that's when you know the person really loves you, when he won't ask you for sex even though he wants it, that means he's thinking of you over himself.
I hope things start looking up for you soon and I hope I have helped you in some way.
2006-08-03 21:10:54 · answer #4 · answered by Maxafrigginlutely 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Am pazzeled as well but i would say just let go cos he has told you the truth and you cant do much about it, its hurts swo bad but if he's yours he'll come back to you, and dont worry there are many fish in the sea u'll get some to love you right its a matter of patience.
2006-08-03 21:22:45 · answer #5 · answered by kiss me. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find someone else who will love you the way you want him to love you. I'm sure you will be able to find someone who loves you, forget about that guy and don't force yourself on him. Also, don't anyhow have sex with guys, especially if he already said he don't love you. (And the guy can't be a good guy if he had sex with you though he did not love you, so ditch him instead of sticking to him like superglue or something.)
I'm sure you will succeed in finding Mr. Right.
=)
2006-08-03 21:12:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU SHOULD DUMP HIS A AND GET OVER WITH HIM!
STEP 1 FIND A REBOUND- great way to get someone off your mind is to find a new one to occupy the time. THIS DOES NoT MEAN SEX.
STEP 2 Breathe. Just focusing on your breath will make you feel better and listen to your quiet self for the answer.
2006-08-03 21:11:27 · answer #7 · answered by ReplicantZer0 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, u know he don love u so for wat u wanna give him everything n now u make urself worse... Love cant be force.. He loves u, he wil.. If dont, n he wil not. Dont waste ur time on those things that not belongs to u.. somedays u wil get what belongs to u.. maybe just not rite now.. Good Luck!
2006-08-03 21:11:37 · answer #8 · answered by viona 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
woah, first of all you need to slow down. you will find love eventually, it takes time. and you should never have sex with someone just to make him love you. i'm sorry dear. sounds like you need a hug >:D<
2006-08-03 21:09:28 · answer #9 · answered by codylynn_03 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget him. You can't force him to love you. Move on and you will find somebody who loves you back and care for you. Good Luck! =)
2006-08-03 21:08:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋