if she going to be nasty should i ask for it back or just forget it i do so love her but she constantly keeps hurting me
2006-08-03 20:52:55 · 9 answers · asked by richard b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm not understanding how she's being nasty.. maybe there is more to it but from the comments you've written, all she's done has refused taking more money from you. Depending on how much she owes, maybe that's why she turned your offer down. She probably just wants to support herself and not have to rely on you for money. There's nothing wrong with that and there's nothing nasty about that!
It was generous and kind of you to offer to help her but instead of getting angry about this, why don't you ask her for the money back or come up with a payment plan, where she can pay you instalments every week?
I obviously don't know anything about you or her and i don't know how she 'hurts' you or why she does it constantly...but maybe you should talk to her about your feelings because your issues will never be resolved!
2006-08-03 21:13:18 · answer #1 · answered by xsammyx 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
i think u should cut ur losses and move on u seem like a really good person. I dont kno the extent of the relationship but it seems like she doesn't really appriciate u mayb u should be friends out seperate for a while to let each other cool down then sit down and talk about ur problems if u really want to make up of course but i kno u can't help what u feel about someone but u can prevent them from hurting u agian
2006-08-03 20:58:12 · answer #2 · answered by Louisa S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
except it became right into a private loan (verbal or written) settlement, then you certainly are in charge legally to pay for this debt. it is going to likely be as much as her to have the burden of evidence if she takes you to court. although, in view which you assert it became right into a modern and he or she has no evidence that it became right into a private loan, then legally no. It additionally relies upon on what state you reside in. in view that, you paid her lease, costs, and so on. i'd point out that to her and in simple terms motivate her to call it even and be completed with it. BTW...approved customers on a mastercard account are no longer legally obligated to pay the debt; although, maximum mastercard agencies record the approved person besides as a results of fact the cardboard holder so this would probably take place on your credit comments.
2016-09-28 21:37:03 · answer #3 · answered by geddings 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, dont stoop to her level now!but maybe you should ask for the money back since obviously its over between you too(hince ex) i mean yah its cold but if she dont want your support\help money then she dont need any of your money, its mean but whatever works!
2006-08-03 20:59:20 · answer #4 · answered by gossipstar2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are hurting bad at the moment,Dont ask for it back wait and see what happens first!
2006-08-03 20:57:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hit the road jack and don't you come back no more, no more, no more....
Let it go...
All of it, including her.
2006-08-03 20:57:39 · answer #6 · answered by val schmal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on!
2006-08-03 20:57:34 · answer #7 · answered by NoMaD! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u shld definitely ask her ur money back
2006-08-03 20:56:49 · answer #8 · answered by friend 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-08-03 20:59:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋