my girlfriend dumped me when will the hurting stop?

Question

will there ever be a time when i dont think about her because i do 24/7 she was the reason my heart beats and when i close my eyes all i see is her she is so important to me i dont know if i can carry on without her and yes i am so serious i,d rather die than live life without her

Answer 1

it takes a minute to love sumone and a lifetime to forget sumone. forgettin her is impossible but loving sumone else may take effect on forgetting the love u have on her. this. is fact. a second to crush on sumone an hour to love them n a lifetime to forgett them... trust. me.

Answer 2

Man I know exactly what you feeling. Firstly U should know that you have the power to continue. It is just the initial Pain that is the worst. As time moves on. She will be out of your mind and the thoughts will disappear.

Maybe hang out with some friends. Try have people around. I find that the worst thing to do with emotional turmoil is to dwell on it. I went threw so many heart breaks. It is part of growing up. They say what ain't kill you. Can only make one stronger

Dude I promise this pain will pass you. Sounds like you are young. You have your entire life ahead of you.

Try these links below. They have helped thousands of other people in the exact same shoes as you.

Hope you cheer up.

Answer 3

Yes, the pain will fade although possibly never go away.

I suggest, in the mean time, that you focus your emotion into something more useful than despair. A physical activity helps, like rock climing, or surfing, or ice skating/roller blading. Do something to get your mind off her and stop sitting still and thinking about her. Even better if it's a new skill that you don't know because then you're learning something. Just go full on 100 percent, to the best of your ability, push your self to your absolute phyiscal limit, it helps.

Answer 4

God get over it already, did she dump you for being so whinny?

"when will the hurting stop?" when will the melodrama stop?

just turn up at her door and give her some verbal abuse, then go out and sleep with her mates, get very drunk every night until you have forgotten what you where getting drunk for and grab a chainsaw and destroy anything that reminds you of her.

when you hae done that and spent a few nights in jail all you'll be left with is contempt for the *****

Answer 5

Richard, my young friend. Listen. Any moment in time, exists for just a moment. You've heard the saying, "there are lot's of fish in the sea"? Well it's true. You'll find that you'll fall in love many times before you find Mrs. Right. I may not get best answer for this but I'll wager in a few years, you'd be willing to go back and give me 10 points for this little bit of wisdom. Trust me on this one buddy. You'll be ok.

Answer 6

I know your pain,my boyfriend dumped me and my heart stop too beat I wanted to die,i didn't believe it when he told me it's over,I cried like a little baby,I thought i was going to die.

It Took me a year to get over him,losing some thing close to your heart is painful,but give your self sometime you will get over her,she is not worth dying for.try to go and have fun with friend.Let go my friend,

You will find some one worth your time and you won't even think about your heartbreak anymore,I know it's going to be hard to let go but give yourself some time,they say time heals old wounds.Good Luck

Answer 7

can I ask you if you had a pulse before you were involved with her?
Life always changes.
I have to find ways to dealt with it.
I suggest you think in a different manner. Can you be only grateful for the wonderful time you had, and envision thanking her for it? Can you be unselfish long enough to want her only to be happy?
For me, I have learned pain has caused me to grow and change.
What if the lessons you have learned are only preparing you for the love of your life, one that will reciprocate your affection?
Life always presents more chances.
Time changes how you feel, and the pain will lessen. Do something nice for yourself every day.Something that you enjoy or pamper yourself. Love yourself.
If you are suicidal, please get some help.

Answer 8

the hurting will stop when u learn to make room in ur heart..because once you love someone that person is forever a part of u..and u have to learn when and where to let the memories come out... u cant let it get to u.. if u do then u will never stop thinking of her.. always think of the good times.. but dont let it run ur life

Answer 9

First of all CALM DOWN!!!!!! You don't need to die to forget her....
Always remember that TIME is the BEST doctor. Ofcourse and you'll think of her every day. BUT day by day you'll see that you'll be better. Until you'll find a girl that you'll love her with all your heart. Just calm down and talk to your close friends or your brother/ sister. They will help you to get over her.
Don't close your pain inside you. You'll feel better if you share things witj others...
Good luck my friend!

Answer 10

time will slowly help u out....the more u try 2 4get her...the more u will b thinking of her....the more u think of her....that much will reminding u of her...n missing her more....don force urself 2 4get her...if u know that u will not able 2 do it....u r hurting urself......may b u r not the right one 4 each other.......but if both of u r the right 1 4 each other.......fate will bring u together again
if u don love urself...then how can u love others.....turn back look at those peoples(parents & etc) who will always b there n care 4 u....ur life is important 4 them

Answer 11

The only way to overcome your feeling for her is to find you someone else real fast. Why crave over someone who has placed you in the trashcan. Can't you get it she is finished. So
don't die get on with your life and show that sweetie you can do
much better. Get someone more beautiful and finer and that wants the good things of life.