how to tell your guy hes lying and you know it?

Question

ok my boyfriend tells these little white lies to make himself look better when actually i know he lies about a few thing he thinks since i have a high social status and i have money that he needs to be at my standards....i have bben with him for 8 wonderful months so should i tell him its ok to be him self about some things or justkeep on smiling and ndding by makeing himself look better.....( most of the the things he tells me is stuff befor we knew each other and i think he says it b/c he thinks he wont get caught b/c i wouldnt know the truth.....but i do im not stupid)

ok i never want to break up with him just for a few lies b/c it makes his ego a little better but they are not lies that are out of this world just a few lies and also he trys to buy me expensive gifts for no reason at all is this making himself feel better? ....let me kinda make this an easier question ....should i tell him its ok that he doesnt have to lie to me b/c i love him no matter if he was homecomming king in high school or anything like this.....i think he lies b/c he thinks i will look down on him...he dwells in the past alot about himself and about myself im a pagent queen prom princess from my younger days and class fav and i live in the same small town where everyone knows me and when he come to my house to see me and we go to the store together i think he feels he has to be someone b/c i once was someone....does this make sence? he wants his past to be as good as my past so he makes lies of his up?...making sence now?

Answer 1

Well, it's been 8 months....think about it. You guys should be able to talk about anything at this point. If you feel that you can't speak your mind by telling to be himself, then there's a problem.

Answer 2

Be amusing about it because most likely he does this out of feeling not as good as he thinks he should be. Something like that. Some you can say, aren't you stretching it just a little. Are you sure about that or want me to believe you. Anything to let him know you do not believe all what he says but at the same time not putting him down. This is very common for people to do.

Answer 3

OK, he thinks that as long as you "pretend" to believe him, he can get away with anything.

I say, leave him.

It wasn't meant to be. It's been wonderful, but a relationship with lies, is not a relationship at all.

You can't necessarily call him out on it, that would be....wrong.
He obviously suffers from chronic self-complex issues, do you really want to be apart of that???

find someone who doesn't feel the need to lie....

that would be a much more fulfilling relationship.

Answer 4

Well you have put up with it for 8 Months. Why stop now?You should go ahead and just hear his stupid stories until you find a good man to replace him...You should never be with a liar they will only get worse and it won't do you any good to tell him cause that will just let him know that you don't trust him and it will only confuse him even more..

Answer 5

your right, he feels inadiquite to you. so he needs to compensate for that by tell you things that are not true, that will possible improve his image. don't let it go on any longer, next time you guys are alone, and he tells you a little lie, tell him that he doesn't need tell little lies about himself to impress you. but that's just my opinion, you do what you think is best

Answer 6

If you want to have a serious relationship ofcourse. Because if he's starting lying and you "believing" them, after some months he will start telling you bigger lies. So stop him a.s.a.p!
Just tell him to stop and be himself because you like him better this way...

Answer 7

directly.

Answer 8

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