if so can they adjust with each other n will the marriage last for long?
2006-08-03 20:24:57 · 45 answers · asked by browngirl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Of course you can marry him and of course they can adjust with each other. The main thing is that you love and care for each other and that you have the same expectations of your life together. I am sure there will be things you will disagree about, and some of them will stem precisely from the cultural differences between the two of you, but as long as you keep an open mind and communicate with each other, you will be fine.
Nobody can guarantee you that the marriage will last, but I can tell you that the lenght of the marriage depends on the partners' characters and not their nationality. Even if you decide to marry an Indian, it doesn't mean you will have a happy life.
Good luck!
2006-08-03 22:46:48 · answer #1 · answered by dalia 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋
If you mean east Indian than I can relate to you. I am of east Indian decent and my husband is blonde and blue eyes. We just recently got married and some relatives came to the wedding some did not. I am so happily married I want to shout it out to the world. Your marriage will only last if you keep the passion and love alive, if you let your relatives and family bother you in your marriage than it is doomed. I personally do not care what my family thinks, I am so happy and I refuse to let anyone take away what I have worked so hard to achieve.
2006-08-10 07:14:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would all depend if you are a native American Indian or a continent of India person or maybe a south American Indian or and again what tribe are you from, what caste system do you represent. I do apologies for the above statements. If you live in the United States of America you can marry, (or divorce any one you want to.)
2006-08-03 20:36:57 · answer #3 · answered by billlucas14all 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girlfriend Why not.The 60's have passed so r de 90's this is a new mellenium i mean 2006 well I think u should go for it why not the important thing is R u guys ready to get married and do u love each other? R u comfortable about the situation and if u ansa Yes 2 my Queastion I dont c why u shouldnt go ahead.Well Culture God never said we must marry according to race he said Husband&Wife will both leave their families to start their new 1 so what is dis thing about Culture,love doesnt have a colour u r black,white,indian,coloured it is still posible to love any person so to HELL with culture lady ur HAPPINESS comes first and well ur Parents will get over it Believe me they will never abonden u After all u r their kids Talk to them explain how u feel
love doesnt choose it comes natural u feel it go for it
LEARN to look up for NO 1 that is you lady u come first and de rest will follow after u
u go gal get ur man
2006-08-03 20:39:35 · answer #4 · answered by TSO GP 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. I don't see how it would matter if you're native american, indian, mexican, chinese, etc. But I do think it is important to find a person who is compatible and with similiar beliefs which may be hard if your two cultures are very different, but far from impossible. Once a guy gets to know you I am sure a lot of things dissolve away.
2006-08-03 20:30:44 · answer #5 · answered by Clayton B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
definitely.....one of my close friends got married to an American guy ......it was such a cute wedding ....the east meets the west kind ......besides they've been married for 2 years now and things are great btw them......so it's really not abt the age or culture so much ,......it's abt adjustments and love which is a necessity in any marriage .
2006-08-03 20:29:25 · answer #6 · answered by dxb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first off yes you can. I know that you will probably come against opposition if your parents are strict indians as the expect to choose a husband for you. My best friend is in the same position you are right now. She is in love with an american guy but fears telling her parents because they will not approve. But love is love you can not controll who you fall in love with. Go for it!
2006-08-03 21:21:25 · answer #7 · answered by christian_k1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it really doesn't matter who u are.whether u r indian or not.miracles could happen n yet not! if ever u will adjust to each other..u both will have to really work this out together to make this amrriage last long.
dat's all i can say n think.so good luck in ur life n marriage
2006-08-03 20:42:56 · answer #8 · answered by taken_aside 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Western country people are accustomed to a free life style ,,,which u cannot find it here in india even after next 25 years ...
if u feel u are so open hearted..and doesn't take any thing on heart after hearing about his pre-marital affairs or any other kind of issues,,,and if u r confident that u can fit in to that type of life style .....then Happy married Life In advance...go ahead
2006-08-03 23:12:30 · answer #9 · answered by sancruise 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why not? my dear if u love him really plzz ...go a head....indian girls r good at heart ...
If you love him from the bottom of ur heart then race and color is not an issue. first and for most thing is try to have a good understand with each other ...tell him what changes u want from him.....
.... all that matters is that he treats you with respect and you do the same to him.
2006-08-03 20:51:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋