We been good friends.How can I not notice his feelings for me.Now I'm with someone else, but I keep thinking about him.Worse, we work together. I miss him so much.We use to be best buddies. Now we are just colleague. I hate that.
2006-08-03 20:17:19 · 8 answers · asked by CatLady 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Write him a letter telling him how you feel - I know it sounds corny, but he'll read it and reflect upon it.
2006-08-03 20:24:20 · answer #1 · answered by jquittenton2 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get him a card
Let him know how much you miss his friendship and that you're not sorry for not accepting him otherwise, but right now you need a friend and you can't think of anyone else to call as such,
since friends are hard to come by you'd hope he'd understand as the friend you think he still is.
Only time will tell how you feel towards him or perhaps you just now feel more for him than you realize,
For now just send him card,
Lell him you didn't mean to hurt his feelings and that you miss him.
good luck!!! / love is a funny thing,. always when you lease expect it. (go figure)
"nuff said"
2006-08-04 03:35:35 · answer #2 · answered by curious rudy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to show attention to him as friend. notice him and say hi to him anytime. you can explain this to your bf. i know it is sux situation because losing good buddies is really bad, make you down and feel guilty. explain to your bf so he will not get jealous. you can also write a letter for him, or just send a card, like a card to say "lets be friend" or card with funny joke, maybe he will forgive you and talk with you again ;)
2006-08-04 03:27:06 · answer #3 · answered by Veloce 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can't accept him, what problem are you having? Why are you missing him if you don't love him? You are listing to his side more than to that of your current..
Sounds like you want him. Go get him. Your dilema is self - created.
2006-08-04 03:26:45 · answer #4 · answered by kombo6m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
same situation right now... she freaked out when i told her, now seems like were just co worker.. i guess she was just surprise, but eventually it will get better... are u seeing someone? why don't u try with him, u guys might be compatible.
2006-08-04 03:30:39 · answer #5 · answered by christopher d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him a "we're just friends BJ" and he will get over it in short order...
2006-08-04 03:27:44 · answer #6 · answered by hard_in_temecula 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tough situation, good luck.
2006-08-04 03:22:00 · answer #7 · answered by retrac_enyaw03 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats because YOU made it that way.
2006-08-04 03:22:05 · answer #8 · answered by Astro Gurl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋