So that she should not feel that its Lust in my Mind for Our Relation.
2006-08-03 20:16:17 · 6 answers · asked by Beware_I'm_Here 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
first of all, you should never need to ask her for sex.
just on a date make the moves kiss cudle, fondle and see where it leads. and remeber if she says stop at any point you HAVE to stop or risk prosecution for sexual assault or date rape depending on how far you go.
but providing you are both consenting adults over 18 then you should be fine.
oh and remeber if you are under that age there is a remote possibility of a rape charge especially if your girl is under that age.
16 in some areas and 21 in others, check the law in your region.
but if you love her and she loves you when the time is right you will both exchange a look and it will just sort of happen.
2006-08-03 20:31:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I honestly wouldn't ask but wait for her to feel comfortable enough with you before moving onto that. And just to warn you, everything changes for a guy after having sex with a girl. But, if you really want to have sex with a girl I would show this interest through showing your affection. This doesn't have to be an expensive date or gifts...simple things like kissing and holding hands. Eventually she'll feel comfortable enough with you to take it further but you must give her some time.
2006-08-04 03:23:06 · answer #2 · answered by Clayton B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have been dating a while, have either of you brought it up before? How does she react? How old are you? How do you know you are ready to lose your virginity? Sorry I am just curious and concerned. If it's not Lust and you feel it's Love....wait!
2006-08-04 03:26:38 · answer #3 · answered by LNZ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm i would just leave that up to her, if ya'll are in the mood, let her make the first move on u as if she wants it otherwise don't pressure it just wait until she's ready or she says something about it unless she likes guys that are that forward
2006-08-04 03:22:34 · answer #4 · answered by J.Hefner 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm a girl who hasn't done the deed yet either but if my boyfriend tryed to push me into it i would brake up with him so ask her if shes ready and if she says no DO NOT PUSH! ok thats all i have to say
2006-08-04 03:23:44 · answer #5 · answered by C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get her drunk(or high), thats how i did it my first time, just remember go slow you don't want to be a one minute wonder.
2006-08-04 03:25:19 · answer #6 · answered by Alec with a C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋