Hello,
My bf just came back from a week-long vacation, and I was so anxious to see him since I really missed him. When I went up to see him as soon as I could at the end of his workday (he didnt know that I was coming), he didnt even seem excited to me, he just wanted to hurry things up and go home. It really disappointed me. Why did he do this/What does it mean?
2006-08-03 20:07:43 · 12 answers · asked by lfortier1000 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think he met someone while he was gone. Summer is the time for new love, you know?
2006-08-03 20:11:50 · answer #1 · answered by julielove327 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your surprise would have been on neutral ground I'd say there might be a problem. But we are all different individuals at work. Having a personal experience in front of coworkers, or not being able to decompress from work, could really be what you were seeing.
2006-08-03 20:16:27 · answer #2 · answered by Bad Buddhist 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may have been with another girl. Maybe he no longer wants a relationship with you. Give him some times, see if he changes the next time you see him. If behavior is the same, it's time to move on.
2006-08-03 20:13:28 · answer #3 · answered by newyorkgal71 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That means he's not excited to be back from vacation. He was probably somewhere nice and didnt want to come back...or.....maybe you should talk to him and find out. Ask him how his vacation was...come on...its not that bad...
2006-08-03 20:13:02 · answer #4 · answered by UlickNme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't go and suprise him at work cause the first day of work after a vacation, suck's a**.It has nothing to do with you or that he cheated on you.(his job just sucks)...
2006-08-03 20:28:36 · answer #5 · answered by TheManWhoKnow's 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well why don't you ask him. It is better to get your heart bruised now than to walk in with him being with someone else. Or maybe he is attracted to some one and is confused about making a commitment to you.
2006-08-03 20:13:08 · answer #6 · answered by marilee w 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
galfrend, u should have asked him there and then,my boyfrend once acted like that & i asked him y he wasnt happy seeing me and he just smiled & said"i am happy and a little tired" dont conclude things better ask him, its called communication
2006-08-03 20:16:15 · answer #7 · answered by lady x 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could be lots of reasons,... he was tired, he lost interest in you etc. Only one way to find out. ASK HIM!
2006-08-03 20:12:53 · answer #8 · answered by mama mia! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he took someone from his work with him on his vacation from you
2006-08-03 20:12:56 · answer #9 · answered by game boy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it happend to me too "hey boo i missed you(hugged him). "uhh huh". IM GUESSING ITS A GUY THING
2006-08-03 20:14:48 · answer #10 · answered by rkhm4ever 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋