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but she says she is gonna keep it, What should i do she is 3 months pregnant and i am trying to go out with this other girl who is really fine but if she finds out i got no chance of dating her

HELP!!!

2006-08-03 20:05:03 · 53 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

Read My Bio "Im A Chick Magnet"

( You Haters Dont Have To Believe It )

2006-08-03 20:16:23 · update #1

53 answers

Darn you should use condoms my friend. And with this new fine girl of yours use condoms before she tells you she is also pregnant. There not much you can do here, the baby is already 3 months he is completely formed : ( sorry that baby has a right to live and you the responsibility to help him with anything he needs for the next 18 years. But everything happens for a reason believe me on that one. you never know you might end up falling in love again with your child's mother and why not marry her. Good luck to you I truly wish you the best of luck you better stop the playing around you have some major responsibility now and the best way is to confront them. You will be fine at the end good luck :) to you.

2006-08-03 20:12:51 · answer #1 · answered by Jessica 2 · 33 8

Are you in junior high or high school? Seriously. Be a man. You had unprotected sex and the natural consequence is that a baby is on the way. You need to take responsibility for your actions. If you were a decent human being, you'd stop being selfish and be there for the mother of your child. There will be time to date later. How many times is a woman going to have your firstborn? Once. You may not be happy about it, it might not be what you wanted, but it happened. You will be legally responsible for providing financial support to this child. Would you rather be on good terms with the child's mother or on bad terms? I assure you, being on good terms with the baby's mother will benefit you in the long run. Why don't you look at the next 6 months as practice for becoming a mature adult. Maybe by the time the baby is born, you'll be a person who is worthy of being her father, not just some schmuck who wanted to ditch the girl who's pregnant with your firstborn because some other chick was "really fine". As an added insight into a woman's mind: we date men who treat their ex's with respect and who care for their children. We don't want a sleazy, deadbeat dad as a potential mate. Think about that.

2006-08-03 20:16:30 · answer #2 · answered by mytreacheryiseternal 4 · 1 0

I think you should take responsibility for your actions. How would you feel if your father had done the same thing?

I don't care if you're a "chick magnet". Only immature people will go and knock up another girl. You are not the sort of guy that any girl should go out with if you're going to be so callous. Girls don't like that. If all you're looking for is a good time, then you have serious problems. Life's not about having fun.

Grow up and take some responsibility.

2006-08-03 20:09:16 · answer #3 · answered by WinterRhya 2 · 1 0

whatever you do, try to remember "the baby" will be a human being who is seeking the love of it's mother and father. it is not the baby's fault that you didn't use protection. this child's future lies in your hands.. even if you don't want to be present in it's life, try to remember it is not the one to blame here. it is 100% innocent and doesn't deserve any dysfunction when it is born, so try to remember there will ALWAYS be chicks out there for you to "magnetize", but a baby's formative years happen only once, and the impression made on that child in it's first few years will have an impact on it the rest of it's life. look at the big picture.. this is a small person you have created who deserves a chance at a good life.

2006-08-03 20:32:49 · answer #4 · answered by aj 3 · 1 0

Let this be a lesson for you to NOT have sex if you aren't ready for adult responsibilaties. You go around spreading your seed eventually there is a baby, Even with protection people get pregaent.
If the girl you want to go out with finds out about the baby.....geesh she will know the truth about you. You Mess around leave the girl pregnant. YOU have done this to YOUR reputation. You are a player and you got caught.How many girls will you do this to?
As for the child......you better find a way to financially support it and try not to be an asssssH00 dad.
Where is your honor. Is your sleeping around more important than the little life that is growing within, Can you imagine your son, or your little girl looking up at you with their big beautiful eyes
And reach out to you and say "daddy" with unconditonal love.
Your heart will melt. Do you really want to Fup a kids life?

If you don't stand up to the occasion you will fall on your face the rest of your life.

2006-08-03 20:14:31 · answer #5 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 1 0

If you're "man" enough to get a woman pregnant, be man enough to deal with the consequences of your actions. It is her right to have the baby. Tough crap about the other 'girl' who you think is 'really fine'; that's the least of your concerns. Get a job and help support the child that you helped create. You don't need to marry the mother of your child, but you do need to provide for your child.

Oh, I almost forgot to add... GROW UP, and quit having sex until you do. If you can't manage either of those things (odds are you can't), at least learn enough about birth control so that you don't end up with a second child to another woman who you want to jump into bed with but don't care about otherwise.

You are an insult to the word "Cheesy". Just because you're a "chick magnet" doesn't mean your not an immature childish boy who needs to learn how to use a condom.

2006-08-03 20:09:23 · answer #6 · answered by Garth 6 · 1 0

I said my last answer would be my last for the night but I had to do yours. Your name fits you to a T. What in the world gives you the right to not protect yourself while having sex, and then when the unthinkable happens you're out the door? Were you not aware that unprotected sex may lead to pregnancy, or did you feel that if it happened it would be her problem not yours? Do you intend on doing this to all your future girlfriend. You really need to talk to someone. Apparently now that the fun is over you think your times up. Young man if the girl has your child you will become a father for life. It will not be fair to abandon the child because you acted immaturely. No one says you have to stay with the girl if you don't love her but if you disappear from your chils life believe me in due time you will need that child before he needs you. I'm not hating, or preaching. I want you to become responsible, and instead of looking for your next conquest do the right thing!

2006-08-03 20:22:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

You did the crime you are gonna do the time. You better start thinking about where you are gonna get a job to pay child support and if you are going to be able to finish High School at all.

Perhaps you should have thought about whether or not you wanted a child before you had sex huh?

You need to be more concerned with the one that is already knocked up with your kid not the one you wanna nail next. Spreadin' your little swimmers all over the place like that is gonna put you one place.....in the poor house payin' child support to all your babies momma's ya dumb a$$.

2006-08-03 20:08:56 · answer #8 · answered by Jennifer B 5 · 1 0

You should have thought about that before you pulled out your penis. Be a man and help raise your baby. You don't have to be with the girl but you did help make the baby so you need to do your share of the responcabilities. Besides most women love a man who takes care of their children.What makes you think that if she finds out that you got another girl pregnant and didn't help take care of your baby she is going to give you a chance? What if you sleep with her and got her pregnant? Would you stay with her or atleast helped with the baby?

2006-08-03 20:11:29 · answer #9 · answered by ? 5 · 1 0

Take some responsibility. You got her pregnant and you have a baby on the way. Congratulations - you're about to be a father. Dont' do anything a mature version of you will regret later. It's time to grow up.

2006-08-03 20:07:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

if she keeps the infant n she does not supply up the pills, there's a sturdy probability it ought to break the infant. if she's no longer gonna strengthen up n take care or her self then how is she gonna look after a new child? n its your physique n if u decide to offer up the pills then supply up u would desire to strengthen up n get your acted at the same time, circulate to rehab or some thing. An if shes so loopy then you certainly ought to of left her n stoped conversing to her, an chanced on yet another woman or do in simple terms u.

2016-09-28 21:36:22 · answer #11 · answered by geddings 4 · 0 0

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