Im in this relationship and it great, this guy and i really conect...but latly ive been feelin old feeling for my ex. and its confusing because i dont want these feelings and i dont know how to get through all this. please i need advice
2006-08-03 20:03:15 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Perhaps your ex-boyfriend fulfilled a certain feeling or need thats not being fulfilled by your current boyfriend. It could also be that you and your ex never had closure on an issue that for some reason keeps bugging you. Whatever the reason is, just remember that you two broke up for a reason... and you should enjoy the relationship that your in now. Its good that your acknowledgeing these feelings, giving you a head start on trying to prevent on acting on them. Just take a deep breath and re-evaulate the relationship your in now and look for ways to improve it. Once you see and feel that you are content and happy, you will loose interest in your ex.
2006-08-03 20:19:05 · answer #1 · answered by Chicadee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not confused. Only now things are becoming "clear" for you? You are beginning to realise that you just don't change "BF's" or "GF's", everyday, like you change your shirt or something. How is your ex? If he still hasn't found someone and is still kind of waiting for you - go meet him and talk to him and see if that "small issue" which broke your relationship can be sorted out thru "plain" and "heart-to-heart" talking and if things seem to be moving in a positive direction - involve your current friend also and see how things move - the one (of the two) who is not genuinely interested in you and your welfare and in contnuing the relationship will slowly back out and you will live happily with the one who loves you, rather than with the one YOU love - Ok?
2006-08-03 20:23:22 · answer #2 · answered by Jose T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
firstly - do no longer enable the evaluations of others supply up you. in case you fairly beleive in what you're doing, ask them to repsect your decsion in the event that they circulate against your suggestion. on the different had, this isn't any longer honest to ask them to %. up the products a 2d time - although a sturdy pal provides you with a 2d probability. As for the ex-female pal, earlier getting decrease back along with her, it may be extensive to get solutions for some questions. How a lot does feeling sorry for her enter into seeing her? How a lot does your guy or woman loneliness enter into it? Feeling sorry for her won't make a competent relationship, nor will searching for her out in view which you experience lonely or choose intercourse. you're very probably to get harm back, and doubly so, as a results of fact this time you knew she wasn't trustable. How nicely does she comprehend herself? Does she incredibly comprehend why she cheated, or do you think of her responses are in simple terms excuses for no longer dealing with some thing interior herself? some time past, I found out the no longer situation-free way that it fairly is extra effective to be on my own and experience lonely than with somebody who has emotional subjects and is unreliable. i do no longer think of open relationships are sensible for many folk, in simple terms yet in a distinctive thank you to extra confusion and to get harm. it is likewise a sturdy thank you to get a affliction. If she desires to be in an open relationship to "experience enjoyed," then i think she has intimacy subjects, as many a lot of human beings do, and that she isn't dealing with her inner self actual.
2016-09-28 21:36:20 · answer #3 · answered by geddings 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think about my ex boyfriends all the time...then i tell myself, theres a reason they are EX boyfriends....i refuse to move backwards...i will always have fond memories of old boyfriends...i will always have love in my heart for them....and wish all the happieness in the world for them...
i believe you meet someone, you fall in love, and then you make a commitment to that person...to never betray or hurt them.
2006-08-03 20:13:42 · answer #4 · answered by Trish 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is always going to be feelings for your ex..they will never go away..i have been in a long term relationship for 8 years and i still think about him and still have fellings for him..its norma;.dont worry and just move passed it and youll be just fine..babygirl.
2006-08-03 20:21:11 · answer #5 · answered by Babygirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wish i had that problem. "oh poor me. too many to choose from."
First, relationship = confusion.
Second, why did you break up with your ex in the first place. Is that worth getting back together over.
2006-08-03 20:11:38 · answer #6 · answered by agavemike 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋