GUYS ONLY PLZ over the age of 25!!!!!!!!?

Question

Would you ever consider dating a woman who has 2 children and wants no more? Why or why not? just wondering

maybe i should add that i dont want to remarry ? does that change anything??
dont need a 'relationship' just companionship

Answer 1

there are a lot of factors in this story. I know many guys that are older (50's) it was there first marriage and the girls second. They never had any kids together.

If they have kids already, they may not want to have anymore either

You can adopt of your not into being pregnant.

Answer 2

Let me tell you a story... A few years back I met this lady. She had 3 babies. Ages 3, 4 and 4... When I say 'met' I mean I damn near ran her over on an ice covered country road at 5AM.

That was about 25 years ago. We have had many problems and still do but she is still the love of my life.

And no matter what the butch Marjorie Astrofsky above says. Not all men that love other people's kids are perv's. I would kill anyone that lays a hand on Pati, Heather, Larry or Tony.

For that matter I would seriously 'punish' anyone I saw hurting any child.

Answer 3

I'd have no problem dating a woman with 2, who doesn't want more. Just as long as you don't mind practicing, without the end result? I don't need more kids to feel complete. And a mom is a package deal. Seeing a mom and how they deal with their kids can be a great reflection of how they might be in a relationship.

Answer 4

It would depend on what age you and your potential partner are. I'm 30 and am looking to find a nice girl and start a family of my own. It really doesn't matter to me if she already has kids or not. But I do want some of my own as well. I've dated girls that have kids and have built great relationships with them, but at the same time still wanted to go thru the whole experience myself as well. Hope this helps.

Answer 5

Dating, yes, having 2 kids, yes, not wanting any more kids.... no, unless I was dead sure we were just having a fling.

I couldn't commit to a serious relationship, knowing the woman I was going to spend the rest of my life with didn't want to have kids with me. Why? Well, go figure :)

As for raising another guy's kids, as long as they're not spoiled brats and he pays for them, that's no major problem to me.

Answer 6

I personally wouldn't but only because I want to have children someday and perfer women without kids. But I do think a single father would definitely be interested and/or older guys. Either those who already have kids or don't want to have kids.

Answer 7

yes I'd do more than consider dating her, i would date her if she would date me.
as for the children issue, lets just say i have a genetic problem with my bones that i would not wish to pass on to my kids and or grand kids.
so a single mom would be a bonus as a ready made family.
just my personal opinion.

Answer 8

I would but its tough, there are extra problems in the relationship with the Ex and achieving a bond with the children

Answer 9

My first wife had a son before I married her and before we divorced I realized I was more in love with being a dad than I was with being a husband. But I would still do it again I'm not into the whole pregnancy thing. It kinda weirds me out, lolz.

Answer 10

Of course! If the woman I am dating is kind, considerate, highly educated perhaps a MBA in Stanford, then of course you shouldn't have a problem dating any intelligent and kind man.