2006-08-03 19:48:59 · 23 answers · asked by Clayton B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is a question that is as old as time itself. As a teenager I seemed to always be attracted to the worse guys in school. I had a boyfriend in high school that my mother never liked, and wouldn't allow in our home. I never understood her attitude until years later. He was a real loser like she said, and ended up dying a very sad death. I ended up marrying his best friend who was a real nerd. He was cute but boring. We ended up having a daughter who turned out to be the kind of child any parent would be proud of(probably took after him) I divorced him a few years later because he was just too nice, and it drove me nuts. I married a second time to the worse human being on the planet. Hang in there I do have a point to all of this. My third husband(bingo!) is the kindest, generous, loving , boring man I know. It took me two marriages to realize that the nicer they are the better off I'd be. The bad guy thing is rubbish. Women take it from me you will always come out on top with the nice guy.
2006-08-03 20:10:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mature women that have their act together do. The ones that don't are usually immature or have self esteem issues. They don't like themselves so they don't think they deserve a nice guy. Either way you have a child or baggage. Keep looking theres a nice lady out there for you somewhere.
Good Luck
2006-08-03 20:09:55 · answer #2 · answered by chitchenitza 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess that a woman's way of believing that nice guys annoy them. I hate the fact the women dislike nice guys. I mean, i am a nice guy too. I hate it when nice guys are excluded as a part of society. Screw these damn women who don't accept nice guys. These women are the one to blame.
2006-08-03 19:53:48 · answer #3 · answered by caltam84 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I work with 15 women. 13 are married and all to nice guys.
You're right about dating, but not about marrying. I don't know if that's any consolation though ;)
2006-08-03 19:56:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
not all women. Some just experiment to see if they want to go down that path. But i personally like nice guys because you can trust them.
2006-08-03 19:53:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nice guys like ourselves are normally going to end up in bad relationships.
But there is hope as long as you stay in a positive attitude chicks dig that. No matter what happens to you, you have to make it seem like you are in charge of your life and you will take on any problem head on.
2006-08-03 19:54:26 · answer #6 · answered by tattoomeats 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like dating nice guys!! Just not a push-over but there is a difference. I like a guy that will stand up for himself but is a gentleman, kindhearted, has a Faith in God, and is funny.
2006-08-03 19:54:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
two reasons:
Women like to be treated bad. I know it's a tad cliche but true. I treated this girl that I sorta liked really bad one time. She was all over me like white on rice. She later became my wife
Women like the bad boy. Women want to date a rebel, just something about it they find attractive.
2006-08-03 19:53:33 · answer #8 · answered by researchtissue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just have to be well rounded guy that can party and knows how to treat a girl. A lot of my chick friends that i hang out with like the mysteries of bad boys, they don't always like relating, unless you just want to be friends, but you don't because you want to date.
2006-08-03 19:58:42 · answer #9 · answered by Alec with a C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nice guys are saved for marriage, Bad guys are for fun. It's sad but true.
2006-08-03 19:53:59 · answer #10 · answered by Rico 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋