He's jealous when I dance or talk to them. I really like him though
2006-08-03 19:42:21 · 11 answers · asked by tamfries_08 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he has got plenty of lady friends too and I don't understand why he is more jealous of the guys I assiciate with. I'm sometimes jealous of his girlfriends, but I don't expect him to lay them off.
2006-08-03 19:56:02 · update #1
Mr. Chivalry says, "If the both of you had these friends before you dated, then neither of you has a right to try to break up the friendships. It's disrespectful, as well."
Mr. Chivalry has spoken.
2006-08-04 05:40:16 · answer #1 · answered by L Jeezy 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it doesnt matter how much you love him -
if he is the one that has a prob with you having friends who are males then the onus is on him to decide how much he loves you and if that's enough to trust u.
never give up anything for a jealous bf.
I had a bf earlier this year and after about 6 weeks he started getting really jealous so I told all my male friends that I am seeing someone now and outta respect for him im not gonna talk to other guys.
I havnt seen that bf for about a month now and where did that leave me? Very lonely and missing all my old mates. I was lucky tho a couple of them have been good enough to take me out as friends just like old times and not give the I told you so type ****.
Jealousy is one of the 7 deadly sins and if he doesnt trust you then believe me - the punk aint even worth it.
2006-08-04 02:58:25 · answer #2 · answered by miss2sexc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is jealous cos he is worried that they will try to make a move on you. he believes that guys can never just be friends with girls, and if theres a chance more could happen, guys will take that chance. you just have to reassure him that they are only friends. and maybe hang out with them a little less, but dont cut them out. your boyfriend wont change his mind bout this either
2006-08-04 02:49:10 · answer #3 · answered by marcvialli 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No just tell them 2 lay off a little
2006-08-04 02:47:06 · answer #4 · answered by pandae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you shouldn't. If this guy cares for you, then he should accept them. But you shouldn't want to make new friends while you have a BF. That would tell any guy that your seeking a replacement for you BF
2006-08-04 03:15:41 · answer #5 · answered by Baghdad Pete ! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i donno whether ur deeply in luv with ur Bf but think, if most of the times when u're with ur boy-frens around, ur BF is buggin u with that matter...i think u shud really confront him. ask him what's been badgering him. is it the way u treating ur frens or something else. Nevertheless, make sure:
1) U're not bossing him (ur beloved BF) around when u both happen to be around ur boy-frens.
2) He doesn't feel left out when they're around.
3)Be urself! & know where your limits are.
i think the 3 pin points are the most important thing u have to make sure so that ur BF would understand how u R when u're with ur boy-frens. just b urself, stay true n hopefully everything's going to be fine.
hahaha correct me if im wrong.
GOOD LUCK! :)
2006-08-04 03:06:18 · answer #6 · answered by me-zunt 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should talk to your bf. its not like you are cheating on him and you still love him but just want to hang out with your guy friends.
2006-08-04 02:55:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no... you are only feeding his insecurities when you do this... not to mention giving him his way...
that only opens the door for him to manipulate your entire relationship...
BUT.... do NOT be doing anything inappropriate with your guy friends.... no hanging out with them ALONE for instance....
and always invite your boyfriend into the group.....
2006-08-04 02:50:23 · answer #8 · answered by Resasour 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
are you serious? friends are forever. Unless you ditch them!
2006-08-04 02:49:39 · answer #9 · answered by cruddypantz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends if you are in love with him.
2006-08-04 02:46:34 · answer #10 · answered by scarlet pimpernell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋