should I tell my bf i cheated on him?

Question

ive cheated on my bf. not lately. and i love him more than anything. and i dont know why i did it. it was in the past. and everything is going good right now and i dont want to ruin things. but should i tell him? i dont know what to do. help please?

Answer 1

Ask yourself: would you want him to tell you? If yes, then maybe you should. And also do you believe honesty is a key factor in a good relationship? If so, you may want to tell him.

Answer 2

Mr. Chivalry says, "Each minute you wait makes the situation more and more devastating. At one point in your life, the guilt will begin to consume you. So the question should be: When will you tell your bf? Do you watch all of the shows and movies that are about guys cheating on girls? What if you have a guy that isn't like those guys? Do you want to push things deeper and deeper into a rut. Try to work it out with him. It will be difficult because the person that was betrayed will always feel some pain. If it's meant to be, he'll forgive you and try to make it work with you. Good luck to you."

Mr. Chivalry has spoken.

Answer 3

you pretty much say that you regretted cheating on him, and that now everything is going good...BUT you should still tell him. Just think if you were in his position-- also, isn't your conscience eating at you for not telling him, let alone for doing it in the first place? It will only get worse as you go! i know the thought of telling the one that you love you cheated on him may sound so scary and imaginable, but you must. Like another person said before me: one day you will end up saying it and it will be much, much harder than it is now to tell him. Even if he ends up breaking up with you, you will learn from your mistakes and carry this on to your new relationships later on in life. Get this over with and off of your mind. good luck

Answer 4

Hell no..
im in the exact same boat as u...funny how i ran across ur question.i just cheated on my bf two days ago. but it was only bcuz i was in need and he wasn't there. i love my bf more than life itself..don't do it, do not tell him, he's better off not knowing.
u want things to stay the same act like nothing ever happened.
Trust me..unless u have overwhelming guilt to where u can't sleep at night.

Answer 5

Yes you should just come clean, because it's obviously bothering you since you keep thinking about it. The feeling will only get worse with time and you need to just get it over with. Be prepared for the worst, though, because if he's like most people he'll dump you. Relationships are all about trust and once he finds out you broke his, he might decide to be through with you.

Answer 6

Yes and its your fault if he walks out on you. Honesty is the best policy. Obviously you didnt love him enough not to cheat on him ! You should tell him and be straight with him.

Answer 7

Keep a lid on it for now the time will be right down the track if you confess now you wil loose him for good always deny

Answer 8

yes, just be honest, he will understand..... iif hes worth it then he'll understand........ honesty is most important, if I was in his situation I would want to know and I would not be mad, I would be hurt but not mad, I would not leave you though..... however if you didnt tell me and I found out, then I dont think I could trust you anymore and then it would not work out

hope I could be a help
Cooper

Answer 9

No...never bring it up.

If you really love him, I know the guilt has to be terrible. Ask yourself why you did it....and plan on not doing it again. Check your trail and make sure there is no way he could find out. It always hurts worse to find out from someone else.

If you bring it up...he'll never trust you again.

Answer 10

Put some pictures of you riding this other guy in an envelope and ask your b/f if he wants bad news he should open the envelope, but if he believes ignorance is bliss, to throw it away...